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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 470488" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>On the cards, I don't even have to think twice. I would have said, "Let's pick them up, all right?" Heck, I even help my daughter clean her room sometimes (she is fifteen) and we end up having good talks together...this doesn't bother me.</p><p></p><p>For the defiance, I actually never had to deal with that sort. If I try to imagine what I'd do though, being me, I would probably say, "Hey, that hurts my feelings. I don't talk that way to you" and drop it. Why? I would not want to give any child too much attention for negative behavior. Also, some k ids do have a tougher time holding it together when they are overtired and overstimulated. I'm not sure he needs to learn not to talk that way. I'm quite sure he knows it isn't the right thing to say, even at his age. I think it's more than he either has to mature and learn to control himself on EVERY level and THEN decide not to be rude...or he needs some sort of professional help teaching himself how to do it. </p><p>Most of our k ids are not know for their wonderful social skills...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 470488, member: 1550"] On the cards, I don't even have to think twice. I would have said, "Let's pick them up, all right?" Heck, I even help my daughter clean her room sometimes (she is fifteen) and we end up having good talks together...this doesn't bother me. For the defiance, I actually never had to deal with that sort. If I try to imagine what I'd do though, being me, I would probably say, "Hey, that hurts my feelings. I don't talk that way to you" and drop it. Why? I would not want to give any child too much attention for negative behavior. Also, some k ids do have a tougher time holding it together when they are overtired and overstimulated. I'm not sure he needs to learn not to talk that way. I'm quite sure he knows it isn't the right thing to say, even at his age. I think it's more than he either has to mature and learn to control himself on EVERY level and THEN decide not to be rude...or he needs some sort of professional help teaching himself how to do it. Most of our k ids are not know for their wonderful social skills... [/QUOTE]
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