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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 714385" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>i agree with disengaging sooner rather than later. I would leave the bus money with the brother and then send son a text. The money is there for a ticket if you would like it. Perhaps you can spend the time on the business planning your future and next steps. thanks</p><p></p><p>I find the more I react the more things escalate with my difficult son. But I have been there many many times. Its hard to know what to do in the moment. You and easy child enjoy a nice peaceful ride home. If he gets home and is still belligerent have a plan in place for what to do. I would show him the door and give him the addresses of some shelters but that's my take. You do with what you feel comfortable. He has no right to abuse you or your other child. If it continues he will think its okay to do that to everyone and younger child will too. There has to be consequences. He will up the ante once you change the dance but the dance DOES need to change. Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 714385, member: 20373"] i agree with disengaging sooner rather than later. I would leave the bus money with the brother and then send son a text. The money is there for a ticket if you would like it. Perhaps you can spend the time on the business planning your future and next steps. thanks I find the more I react the more things escalate with my difficult son. But I have been there many many times. Its hard to know what to do in the moment. You and easy child enjoy a nice peaceful ride home. If he gets home and is still belligerent have a plan in place for what to do. I would show him the door and give him the addresses of some shelters but that's my take. You do with what you feel comfortable. He has no right to abuse you or your other child. If it continues he will think its okay to do that to everyone and younger child will too. There has to be consequences. He will up the ante once you change the dance but the dance DOES need to change. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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