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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 357052" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>OH HOW ADORABLE!!!!! A PIGGY CAKE!!!! (((((SNORT)))) - 2 hooves up! I love pigs....used to own a boar hog. William G. Davidson, Equire. Some day I shall write about Willie the Wino. I miss our hog. Everyone does. Your cake is very nice. Good job!!!! </p><p> </p><p>Just a thought.......before you get so far into boarhog world because I've been there, divorced Satan and moved on to greener pastures and much nicer man.....but have you considered going to Family counseling so that EVERYONE can air their greviances? If Hogman says "ME? Counseling? NO WAY I don't need it." Then May I suggest....YOU go alone. The reason I say this is two fold and I'm living proof in two scenarios....</p><p>1st marriage - I asked, begged him to go - he said "I don't need it." he also didn't want me to go so I snuck and went. I kept going for 15 years. Wow did I learn a bundle. I'm almost right in the head. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> Key word - almost. But....I do have a fantastic relationship with my DF (dear fiance) </p><p> </p><p>2nd relationship - I asked, didn't beg - but kept going on my own. At first he said "I don't need it." So I said 'Well I'm going anyway, but keep in mind - nothing is perfect. I just thought I'd learn how we could get along better, but if that's not of any interest to you? Stay home. I'm sure I'll learn something on my own about dealing with that too." Two weeks later? On his own he was dressed and ready to go. Three years running - he never missed an appointment - 2 nights a week - once for us - once for my son. Then he got to where he liked it because living with a difficult child is rough and you NEED a non-interested party to a.) blow off steam to and b.) have a professional tell you HOW to live with your own kid and be smarter & one step ahead to stop problems before they start. difficult child's don't come with an instruction manual. They need to be parented differently than any other chlid and you can use ALL the help you can get. Our divorce rate is EXTREMELY high....so thinking ahead? Counseling wasn't such a bad thing after all. We used it for our date night - </p><p> </p><p>Just a thought so that you could sit in a room - and tell old boarhog - how you feel and then he could say how he feels and then a neutral party could come up with a solution for you both to work on all week....instead of you feeling bad and him doing nothing. Or you yelling at him and him still doing nothing...or you harboring resentment and expressing it inappropriately and him yelling back and the kids thinking NOW IS OUR CHANCE...let's act out. -----Just thinking out loud. Everyone has a side. </p><p> </p><p>Drat -----now I want pink frosting. Arrrrrrrgh. </p><p> </p><p>hugs </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 357052, member: 4964"] OH HOW ADORABLE!!!!! A PIGGY CAKE!!!! (((((SNORT)))) - 2 hooves up! I love pigs....used to own a boar hog. William G. Davidson, Equire. Some day I shall write about Willie the Wino. I miss our hog. Everyone does. Your cake is very nice. Good job!!!! Just a thought.......before you get so far into boarhog world because I've been there, divorced Satan and moved on to greener pastures and much nicer man.....but have you considered going to Family counseling so that EVERYONE can air their greviances? If Hogman says "ME? Counseling? NO WAY I don't need it." Then May I suggest....YOU go alone. The reason I say this is two fold and I'm living proof in two scenarios.... 1st marriage - I asked, begged him to go - he said "I don't need it." he also didn't want me to go so I snuck and went. I kept going for 15 years. Wow did I learn a bundle. I'm almost right in the head. :raspberry-tounge: Key word - almost. But....I do have a fantastic relationship with my DF (dear fiance) 2nd relationship - I asked, didn't beg - but kept going on my own. At first he said "I don't need it." So I said 'Well I'm going anyway, but keep in mind - nothing is perfect. I just thought I'd learn how we could get along better, but if that's not of any interest to you? Stay home. I'm sure I'll learn something on my own about dealing with that too." Two weeks later? On his own he was dressed and ready to go. Three years running - he never missed an appointment - 2 nights a week - once for us - once for my son. Then he got to where he liked it because living with a difficult child is rough and you NEED a non-interested party to a.) blow off steam to and b.) have a professional tell you HOW to live with your own kid and be smarter & one step ahead to stop problems before they start. difficult child's don't come with an instruction manual. They need to be parented differently than any other chlid and you can use ALL the help you can get. Our divorce rate is EXTREMELY high....so thinking ahead? Counseling wasn't such a bad thing after all. We used it for our date night - Just a thought so that you could sit in a room - and tell old boarhog - how you feel and then he could say how he feels and then a neutral party could come up with a solution for you both to work on all week....instead of you feeling bad and him doing nothing. Or you yelling at him and him still doing nothing...or you harboring resentment and expressing it inappropriately and him yelling back and the kids thinking NOW IS OUR CHANCE...let's act out. -----Just thinking out loud. Everyone has a side. Drat -----now I want pink frosting. Arrrrrrrgh. hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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