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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 583085" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>Daze,</p><p>I have to say I am on the other side to. It sounds like he was honest with you. He wasn't comfortable, maybe he had forgotten you were coming, and he would rather handle this on his own for now. While it is a pain in the <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> to drive 100 miles for not much I actually think you may have gotten more than you think out of it. The pain and anger is the immediate reaction but in the long run the question is did he handle this better than normal? Before the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) he probably dealt with all confrontations in a volatile or unhealthy manner. IE: instead of telling you he was uncomfortable he might have lost it or smoked pot (whatever his vices are). </p><p></p><p>Maybe he needs a little space and is getting it there. I would tell the counselor to let him know that you guys are fine with giving him some space and will be more than happy to visit him when he is ready. I hate to say it but it sounds like he may be growing a little.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 583085, member: 15473"] Daze, I have to say I am on the other side to. It sounds like he was honest with you. He wasn't comfortable, maybe he had forgotten you were coming, and he would rather handle this on his own for now. While it is a pain in the :censored2: to drive 100 miles for not much I actually think you may have gotten more than you think out of it. The pain and anger is the immediate reaction but in the long run the question is did he handle this better than normal? Before the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) he probably dealt with all confrontations in a volatile or unhealthy manner. IE: instead of telling you he was uncomfortable he might have lost it or smoked pot (whatever his vices are). Maybe he needs a little space and is getting it there. I would tell the counselor to let him know that you guys are fine with giving him some space and will be more than happy to visit him when he is ready. I hate to say it but it sounds like he may be growing a little. [/QUOTE]
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