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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 396762" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>janet you are right on that one partly. husband and i spoke about it a normal conversation for a while where i finally felt listened to and heard. he isnt' giong there and said it's time the kids find their own traditions on that particular holiday. although he spent a short time there it's unhealthy for them. the thing with-it was he said when kids were little they'd tell them santa brings such great gifts due to dad's pizza from his restaraunt hence the push for him to drop a pie and also he winds up staying for a bit.</p><p> </p><p>yet the kids are getting older and he saw my pt of me sitting without him at my families and also let's face it i've been under a ton of stress. so long story short deal is he isnt' going there anymore on xmas eve and if he gets out early enough he'll drive to my families and if he doesnt' i told him go to his for a bit and we'll meet at home.</p><p> </p><p>so one problem solved <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>janet yes his ex has been so mean to me it's not even funny, stories i could share would leave you shaking your head. really bad stuff. yet i hate to function and never have functioned pertaining to kids on any level of hurt from what she's done to me. as far as they know i have no feelings for their mom, im neutrel. mom can badmouth me yet i'd never do it about her to them. it would only hurt them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 396762, member: 4514"] hi janet you are right on that one partly. husband and i spoke about it a normal conversation for a while where i finally felt listened to and heard. he isnt' giong there and said it's time the kids find their own traditions on that particular holiday. although he spent a short time there it's unhealthy for them. the thing with-it was he said when kids were little they'd tell them santa brings such great gifts due to dad's pizza from his restaraunt hence the push for him to drop a pie and also he winds up staying for a bit. yet the kids are getting older and he saw my pt of me sitting without him at my families and also let's face it i've been under a ton of stress. so long story short deal is he isnt' going there anymore on xmas eve and if he gets out early enough he'll drive to my families and if he doesnt' i told him go to his for a bit and we'll meet at home. so one problem solved :) janet yes his ex has been so mean to me it's not even funny, stories i could share would leave you shaking your head. really bad stuff. yet i hate to function and never have functioned pertaining to kids on any level of hurt from what she's done to me. as far as they know i have no feelings for their mom, im neutrel. mom can badmouth me yet i'd never do it about her to them. it would only hurt them. [/QUOTE]
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