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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 269555" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">KJS, you need to get out of the house, NOW. Your son is abusing you. And he has back up. What back up do you have? It is appalling to me that you are still trying to help them all, when it is clear they don't want your help. I know it's painful to hear - but it's true. They don't want your advice, your well wishes, etc. It's time to jump ship - save yourself. I'm so so so sorry that it has come to this with your situation, but you keep trying the same things and expecting different results. It's not happening. Is there a friend/co-worker or family member you could stay with? You really need to get out of there, even if it's temporary. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">KJS, the situation with your H is an emergency now. My sister went to the ER last year for back pain and because she couldn't pee. They wouldn't allow her to leave. The neurologist did an MRI of her lower spine and discovered that the bulging discs had actually SHATTERED. She was scheduled for emergency surgery. When the DR went in he found what he described as 'crab meat' pieces of her discs. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">The thing is my sister ignored the severe to debilitating pain she had in her back for weeks before this happened. She saw a chiro as a last ditch effort for pain relief. The chiro, knowing she was not able to help her due to the severity of the damage, strongly urged and encouraged my sister to see a specialist. By the time my sister was forced into the ER, it was too late for physical therapy.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">The fragments and severe disc damage had been pressing on specific nerves which disabled my sister from being able to pee. It was horrifying to see her in that much pain, but amazing that it was as severe as it was and she was still trying to ignore it, hoping it would just fix itself.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Your H is in for a terrible time if he ignores this any further. I'm very surprised the familiy doctor didn't make him go to the ER. Are you sure he actually went? And do you know if the doctor did say to go to the ER and he's just ignoring the advice?</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #483d8b">Please PLEASE, take care of YOURSELF first and foremost and find another place to stay. Your home is toxic and you can't help anyone if they don't want to help themself. We love you and only want you to be safe and at peace, kjs.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 269555, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]KJS, you need to get out of the house, NOW. Your son is abusing you. And he has back up. What back up do you have? It is appalling to me that you are still trying to help them all, when it is clear they don't want your help. I know it's painful to hear - but it's true. They don't want your advice, your well wishes, etc. It's time to jump ship - save yourself. I'm so so so sorry that it has come to this with your situation, but you keep trying the same things and expecting different results. It's not happening. Is there a friend/co-worker or family member you could stay with? You really need to get out of there, even if it's temporary. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]KJS, the situation with your H is an emergency now. My sister went to the ER last year for back pain and because she couldn't pee. They wouldn't allow her to leave. The neurologist did an MRI of her lower spine and discovered that the bulging discs had actually SHATTERED. She was scheduled for emergency surgery. When the DR went in he found what he described as 'crab meat' pieces of her discs. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]The thing is my sister ignored the severe to debilitating pain she had in her back for weeks before this happened. She saw a chiro as a last ditch effort for pain relief. The chiro, knowing she was not able to help her due to the severity of the damage, strongly urged and encouraged my sister to see a specialist. By the time my sister was forced into the ER, it was too late for physical therapy.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]The fragments and severe disc damage had been pressing on specific nerves which disabled my sister from being able to pee. It was horrifying to see her in that much pain, but amazing that it was as severe as it was and she was still trying to ignore it, hoping it would just fix itself.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Your H is in for a terrible time if he ignores this any further. I'm very surprised the familiy doctor didn't make him go to the ER. Are you sure he actually went? And do you know if the doctor did say to go to the ER and he's just ignoring the advice?[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#483d8b][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#483d8b]Please PLEASE, take care of YOURSELF first and foremost and find another place to stay. Your home is toxic and you can't help anyone if they don't want to help themself. We love you and only want you to be safe and at peace, kjs.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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