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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 269576" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I'm sending you a hug but I'm also sending you a warning. Your situation is <strong>not </strong>healthy for you or anyone in the household. In your role as "Mom" you have been trying to orchestrate the family.......they want to be in control. That means they have to ignore you, defy you or take you down.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Don't threaten or talk about it.....leave......now!</strong></p><p> </p><p>Your departure will force them to take responsibility for their own choices without having you as the scapegoat. You are <strong>not </strong>their servant. They need to be accountable.</p><p> </p><p>Don't whine. Don't make excuses. Make a plan for yourself. Leave a list of appointment times etc. if you know they have obligations. Walk out the door and don't consider going back until you have written proof that they care enough about "the family" to have attended some counseling sessions. It's time for <strong>you </strong>to make choices for <strong>you </strong>and <strong>your future. </strong>DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 269576, member: 35"] I'm sending you a hug but I'm also sending you a warning. Your situation is [B]not [/B]healthy for you or anyone in the household. In your role as "Mom" you have been trying to orchestrate the family.......they want to be in control. That means they have to ignore you, defy you or take you down. [B]Don't threaten or talk about it.....leave......now![/B] Your departure will force them to take responsibility for their own choices without having you as the scapegoat. You are [B]not [/B]their servant. They need to be accountable. Don't whine. Don't make excuses. Make a plan for yourself. Leave a list of appointment times etc. if you know they have obligations. Walk out the door and don't consider going back until you have written proof that they care enough about "the family" to have attended some counseling sessions. It's time for [B]you [/B]to make choices for [B]you [/B]and [B]your future. [/B]DDD [/QUOTE]
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