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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 269851" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>(((hugs)))</p><p> </p><p>husband needs to be checked for a hernia or cancer. A stone shouldn't make his testicles hurt with urination. </p><p> </p><p>Wish I could wave a magic wand for you, sweetie. </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>I understand this all too well. We only have the house we're in because I got a nice insurance settlement after being hit by the truck and put an enormous downpayment on it. I struggled with letting it go. It was really hard to even think about because a house like this is something I'd dreamed about since I was just a little girl.</p><p> </p><p>About 2 yrs ago I realized that a house (even your dream house) is just a house. And a home is NOT a home if you're utterly miserable in it. Discovered much to my surprise that not even my dream home was worth living in misery. I can let it go now if I need to. When next spring comes and it's time for husband to leave, if he won't go willingly......<strong>I will</strong>. No regrets.</p><p> </p><p>If you can pay the house and bills....you can afford your own place. Once out, you don't pay the first set of bills, that is they're problem. If husband let's it go, it's on him. So what if it hurts your credit? Credit ratings can heal over time. It's just not worth all the misery they bring you.</p><p> </p><p>I know (and understand) you feel trapped. But when you are finally ready....you <strong>will</strong> find a way out.</p><p> </p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 269851, member: 84"] (((hugs))) husband needs to be checked for a hernia or cancer. A stone shouldn't make his testicles hurt with urination. Wish I could wave a magic wand for you, sweetie. I understand this all too well. We only have the house we're in because I got a nice insurance settlement after being hit by the truck and put an enormous downpayment on it. I struggled with letting it go. It was really hard to even think about because a house like this is something I'd dreamed about since I was just a little girl. About 2 yrs ago I realized that a house (even your dream house) is just a house. And a home is NOT a home if you're utterly miserable in it. Discovered much to my surprise that not even my dream home was worth living in misery. I can let it go now if I need to. When next spring comes and it's time for husband to leave, if he won't go willingly......[B]I will[/B]. No regrets. If you can pay the house and bills....you can afford your own place. Once out, you don't pay the first set of bills, that is they're problem. If husband let's it go, it's on him. So what if it hurts your credit? Credit ratings can heal over time. It's just not worth all the misery they bring you. I know (and understand) you feel trapped. But when you are finally ready....you [B]will[/B] find a way out. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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