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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 269857"><p>DL brings up a great point. Letting the first set of bills go and accepting bad credit or probable foreclosure when husband didn't pick up the ball is a great example of mine. I worked so hard to establish good credit twice. I had to re-establish it after ex ruined it in a big way and I had to deal with bankruptcy. It's so hard at my age to consider doing that again. But DL is right, houses and credit are no reason to stay unhappy. It took me making the same mistake twice to learn about my patterns of codependency and I finally get it. I feel liberated and free in my spirit if not in tangible, physical ways. Only I can make me happy and it is not my job to do it for anyone else. This facet of the human condition is one we share KJS. Love and peace, ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 269857"] DL brings up a great point. Letting the first set of bills go and accepting bad credit or probable foreclosure when husband didn't pick up the ball is a great example of mine. I worked so hard to establish good credit twice. I had to re-establish it after ex ruined it in a big way and I had to deal with bankruptcy. It's so hard at my age to consider doing that again. But DL is right, houses and credit are no reason to stay unhappy. It took me making the same mistake twice to learn about my patterns of codependency and I finally get it. I feel liberated and free in my spirit if not in tangible, physical ways. Only I can make me happy and it is not my job to do it for anyone else. This facet of the human condition is one we share KJS. Love and peace, ML [/QUOTE]
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