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<blockquote data-quote="Michellenurse0" data-source="post: 109308" data-attributes="member: 3775"><p>Gosh, I can totally relate. My husband has been in denial for years over his sons ADHD, ODD, and depression. My son took this sassy test and another test and both test revealed that he has severe depression and a drug dependance problem. MY husband said to the social worker well, what if he lied on the test. How do you know that it is accurate! OH MY GOSH!!! Talk about denial. I started taking care of my son and not worrying about what my husband wanted. My husband always says that these are his choices and he just does what he wants and thats nothing! And i continue to enable him. I am a mother , i will never stop helping my children but i have stopped enabling them. I stopped telling him about everything and delt with my difficult child myself and god took care of it all. My difficult child who got in lots of trouble had to go to court and the court mandated family counseling! He had to talk about his denial of his sons disorder. It seems to have helped us out alot. Be patient and take care of your child. Things will work out. I thought about leaving my husband many times thinking "its better for my difficult child!" but its not true. I also stopped fighting in front of my son. Talkig to my husband in another room and not raising my voice. We tried different medications too. Ambilify has helped alot. Good luck. And keep on helping your son. It will pay off in the end.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Michellenurse0, post: 109308, member: 3775"] Gosh, I can totally relate. My husband has been in denial for years over his sons ADHD, ODD, and depression. My son took this sassy test and another test and both test revealed that he has severe depression and a drug dependance problem. MY husband said to the social worker well, what if he lied on the test. How do you know that it is accurate! OH MY GOSH!!! Talk about denial. I started taking care of my son and not worrying about what my husband wanted. My husband always says that these are his choices and he just does what he wants and thats nothing! And i continue to enable him. I am a mother , i will never stop helping my children but i have stopped enabling them. I stopped telling him about everything and delt with my difficult child myself and god took care of it all. My difficult child who got in lots of trouble had to go to court and the court mandated family counseling! He had to talk about his denial of his sons disorder. It seems to have helped us out alot. Be patient and take care of your child. Things will work out. I thought about leaving my husband many times thinking "its better for my difficult child!" but its not true. I also stopped fighting in front of my son. Talkig to my husband in another room and not raising my voice. We tried different medications too. Ambilify has helped alot. Good luck. And keep on helping your son. It will pay off in the end. [/QUOTE]
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