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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 417839" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>It sounds like you have really tried to share appropriate parenting skills with you husband. Having in home therapists was a brilliant idea...but sadly it didn't work. Are the other chlldren also bio kids of you and your husband? </p><p> </p><p>My Ex and I were married ten years and had two easy to raise children first..then our daughter was born and the whole dynamic of our home and family life changed quickly toward the worse. It caught me off guard, so to speak, because the family was functioning so well for the years prior to her arrival. When he decided that corporal punishment or "sending her away" was the answer I reluctantly filed for a separation which finalized in divorce. The reason I am sharing this is because most often around here step parents are the ones who can't cope. That's why others have asked if he is the bioDad or not.</p><p> </p><p>It's a rough position to be in, I know. Your choices seem to be intensive counseling in hopes that he "gets it" or separate households. I don't think there is a healthy happy middle ground. Truly</p><p>"taning hides" is only going to make things worse...as you know. I'm sorry I don't have a miracle suggestion. Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 417839, member: 35"] It sounds like you have really tried to share appropriate parenting skills with you husband. Having in home therapists was a brilliant idea...but sadly it didn't work. Are the other chlldren also bio kids of you and your husband? My Ex and I were married ten years and had two easy to raise children first..then our daughter was born and the whole dynamic of our home and family life changed quickly toward the worse. It caught me off guard, so to speak, because the family was functioning so well for the years prior to her arrival. When he decided that corporal punishment or "sending her away" was the answer I reluctantly filed for a separation which finalized in divorce. The reason I am sharing this is because most often around here step parents are the ones who can't cope. That's why others have asked if he is the bioDad or not. It's a rough position to be in, I know. Your choices seem to be intensive counseling in hopes that he "gets it" or separate households. I don't think there is a healthy happy middle ground. Truly "taning hides" is only going to make things worse...as you know. I'm sorry I don't have a miracle suggestion. Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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