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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 69897" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Karen</p><p></p><p>I'm really sorry husband did this to you.</p><p></p><p>But I'm hard pressed to believe his "excuse" for his affairs. If your feelings of intimacy and romance are the same as they were when he met you, then he knew what he was getting. And to go out during such a horrific time for you and be with this woman when his place was to be at your side to support you in your grief.... Well, that would surely send me a clear picture of exactly how he felt about me!</p><p></p><p>My husband has had affairs throughout our marriage. At first I refused to believe the evidence staring me in the face. Then I tried to find out the "why" to his cheating. Then as he slowly managed to kill any romantic love I'd ever felt for him I began to see reality.</p><p></p><p>My husband cheated because he wanted to. His reasons had nothing to do with me. His cheating was betraying me, and the ultimate in disrespecting me as his wife and partner. No excuse can cover that. Not when he could tell me he wasn't happy and end the relationship. Which would have been the respectful thing to do.</p><p></p><p>husband knows he's hurting you every time he cheats. But he still cheats. And as long as you stay where you are he will most likely continue to cheat. Why? Cuz he can get away with it.</p><p></p><p>My husband and I will probably always be friends. He makes a pretty great friend. Just a rotten husband and not so great dad. But I'm in the process of reclaiming my life and self respect. Once my education is finished husband will be gone. I figure after all those years (24) he owes me that much.</p><p></p><p>Do what you need to do first. You don't have to rush into any discisions. You can take you time and decide what YOU want.</p><p></p><p>Sending warm thoughts and many gentle ((((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 69897, member: 84"] Karen I'm really sorry husband did this to you. But I'm hard pressed to believe his "excuse" for his affairs. If your feelings of intimacy and romance are the same as they were when he met you, then he knew what he was getting. And to go out during such a horrific time for you and be with this woman when his place was to be at your side to support you in your grief.... Well, that would surely send me a clear picture of exactly how he felt about me! My husband has had affairs throughout our marriage. At first I refused to believe the evidence staring me in the face. Then I tried to find out the "why" to his cheating. Then as he slowly managed to kill any romantic love I'd ever felt for him I began to see reality. My husband cheated because he wanted to. His reasons had nothing to do with me. His cheating was betraying me, and the ultimate in disrespecting me as his wife and partner. No excuse can cover that. Not when he could tell me he wasn't happy and end the relationship. Which would have been the respectful thing to do. husband knows he's hurting you every time he cheats. But he still cheats. And as long as you stay where you are he will most likely continue to cheat. Why? Cuz he can get away with it. My husband and I will probably always be friends. He makes a pretty great friend. Just a rotten husband and not so great dad. But I'm in the process of reclaiming my life and self respect. Once my education is finished husband will be gone. I figure after all those years (24) he owes me that much. Do what you need to do first. You don't have to rush into any discisions. You can take you time and decide what YOU want. Sending warm thoughts and many gentle ((((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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