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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 69919" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I've never been in your shoes but one of my sister's was some</p><p>years ago. She was completely heartbroken and only shared her</p><p>pain with me via telephone calls from five or six states away.</p><p></p><p>I'm pretty even tempered, as you know, but I wanted to just shred</p><p>my brother in law to bits. Fortunately I was able to keep from saying how</p><p>I felt about him. I focused on her. What did she think was the</p><p>best future for her? The children? I offered all the supports I</p><p>could and suggested that "if" she wanted to move on alone I would</p><p>help her find a "killer" attorney etc.</p><p></p><p>In September they are celebrating their Golden Anniversary. I</p><p>was their maid of honor and husband and I are going out of town to take them out for a fancy dinner. Once her initial pain wore off</p><p>my sister developed an individual strength that she never had before. She agreed to stay married but made it clear that she</p><p>would never again "need" to be married to him like she did before.</p><p></p><p>They truly came out of the crisis as a much happier healthier</p><p>couple. It can happen. on the other hand, I still haven't forgiven him..lol.</p><p>Nobody knows that, however, except my CD family as of now. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 69919, member: 35"] I've never been in your shoes but one of my sister's was some years ago. She was completely heartbroken and only shared her pain with me via telephone calls from five or six states away. I'm pretty even tempered, as you know, but I wanted to just shred my brother in law to bits. Fortunately I was able to keep from saying how I felt about him. I focused on her. What did she think was the best future for her? The children? I offered all the supports I could and suggested that "if" she wanted to move on alone I would help her find a "killer" attorney etc. In September they are celebrating their Golden Anniversary. I was their maid of honor and husband and I are going out of town to take them out for a fancy dinner. Once her initial pain wore off my sister developed an individual strength that she never had before. She agreed to stay married but made it clear that she would never again "need" to be married to him like she did before. They truly came out of the crisis as a much happier healthier couple. It can happen. on the other hand, I still haven't forgiven him..lol. Nobody knows that, however, except my CD family as of now. DDD [/QUOTE]
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