Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
husband had an affair
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 70135" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Karen, you are wise to get to counseling. </p><p></p><p>Many marriages have survived more than differences in romance or holding hands. Many marriages have survived affairs. </p><p></p><p>Things must be so different about each of you after 26 years of changing and growing. You still get along - which in itself is amazing, in my humble opinion. I wonder how often you both explore the changes in each other and in the couple that you are. </p><p></p><p>I made a promise to ask my boyfriend twice a year if the relationship we have is meeting his needs. I figured since he was not going to bring it up (at least he did not last time) I better force the issue now and then. So far, he has told me both times his needs are being met. Mine are, too. </p><p></p><p>If husband came to you and said his needs are being met except for the hand holding (example) would you hold hands with him once a week? What needs of yours aren't being met?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 70135, member: 391"] Karen, you are wise to get to counseling. Many marriages have survived more than differences in romance or holding hands. Many marriages have survived affairs. Things must be so different about each of you after 26 years of changing and growing. You still get along - which in itself is amazing, in my humble opinion. I wonder how often you both explore the changes in each other and in the couple that you are. I made a promise to ask my boyfriend twice a year if the relationship we have is meeting his needs. I figured since he was not going to bring it up (at least he did not last time) I better force the issue now and then. So far, he has told me both times his needs are being met. Mine are, too. If husband came to you and said his needs are being met except for the hand holding (example) would you hold hands with him once a week? What needs of yours aren't being met? [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
husband had an affair
Top