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husband has an ulcer and we're still hardly speaking
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 568664" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>in my opinion, the first step to getting better is admitting that you have a problem. Your husband mentioned a "marriage therapist" because he thinks that your marriage has a problem. He won't go because he doesn't want to admit that he is any part of the problem in your marriage.</p><p></p><p>I'm not certain that you can get him in there unless you drag him into it by "admitting" that all the problems are your fault before you go. Of <em>course</em> the therapist would immediately point the fallacy of this out to both of you and suggest that you work on your real troubles, which in any marriage <em>start</em> with bad communication on both parts. He has gone out of his way to cut off communication altogether.</p><p></p><p>Honestly, if he stays home for Christmas, I would view that as his quitting our marriage and I'd start figuring out where his money is and get myself a lawyer. There is WAY more to this than he is letting on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 568664, member: 99"] in my opinion, the first step to getting better is admitting that you have a problem. Your husband mentioned a "marriage therapist" because he thinks that your marriage has a problem. He won't go because he doesn't want to admit that he is any part of the problem in your marriage. I'm not certain that you can get him in there unless you drag him into it by "admitting" that all the problems are your fault before you go. Of [I]course[/I] the therapist would immediately point the fallacy of this out to both of you and suggest that you work on your real troubles, which in any marriage [I]start[/I] with bad communication on both parts. He has gone out of his way to cut off communication altogether. Honestly, if he stays home for Christmas, I would view that as his quitting our marriage and I'd start figuring out where his money is and get myself a lawyer. There is WAY more to this than he is letting on. [/QUOTE]
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