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husband is a JERK!! I would use another word but Im a lady.
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 252584" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>So finally someone has seen what you are talking about. That is good. If nothing else, it vindicates you.</p><p></p><p>I do hear you about husband - it isn't easy for him, he's the meat in the sandwich. But I do feel he is handling things by NOT handling them, perhaps how he has slid through in the past. I do agree, you need to take a breather plus ensure your safety (and easy child, and the dog).</p><p></p><p>You have given him 12 years, he's currently got divided loyalties right now plus isn't handling things well, so don't slam the door shut necessarily. HOwever, I do agree - you need to get yourself out of the situation where you are the ogre because you're the one on the spot, doing te spadework but getting the holes filled in after you by someone who is doing the job wrong, and then allowing you to be blamed.</p><p></p><p>The fastest way for husband to work out what has to be done, is to have to take the deicsions himself and to wear the consequences all by himself. As long as you are there to either rescue him, or to be blamed for things not being perfect, husband won't wake up and smell the coffee.</p><p></p><p>So in the meantime - enjoy sleeping well at night.</p><p></p><p>let us know how you get on.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 252584, member: 1991"] So finally someone has seen what you are talking about. That is good. If nothing else, it vindicates you. I do hear you about husband - it isn't easy for him, he's the meat in the sandwich. But I do feel he is handling things by NOT handling them, perhaps how he has slid through in the past. I do agree, you need to take a breather plus ensure your safety (and easy child, and the dog). You have given him 12 years, he's currently got divided loyalties right now plus isn't handling things well, so don't slam the door shut necessarily. HOwever, I do agree - you need to get yourself out of the situation where you are the ogre because you're the one on the spot, doing te spadework but getting the holes filled in after you by someone who is doing the job wrong, and then allowing you to be blamed. The fastest way for husband to work out what has to be done, is to have to take the deicsions himself and to wear the consequences all by himself. As long as you are there to either rescue him, or to be blamed for things not being perfect, husband won't wake up and smell the coffee. So in the meantime - enjoy sleeping well at night. let us know how you get on. Marg [/QUOTE]
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