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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 409748" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>good advice and i agree 100%. he's always been like this. it's one of our biggest problems. the level of rejection he feels is in all honesty catastrophic. can't spell. lol. i do feel bad told him go get help ill help in anyway i can. yet i get him yelling at me on phone (majority of our conversations because he always works) that he doesnt' have any issues it's me with all the problems lol. oh ok <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>so yea it's been like this for 4 years now. luckily i do not work. boy when i worked it was hugely hard. he'd get upset jealous that i'd have to sleep for work next day. for 42 he's more like 22. and yes this is who i chose to marry.</p><p> </p><p>yet he stated dont' worry we'll work out a schedule i'll calm down it'll be ok. ummm i try to implement the schedule and he has a cow. so who needs that after all day difficult child world? to than deal with-an adult difficult child at 1 a.m. throwing mini hissy fit?? Not me!!</p><p> </p><p>my therapist and i talked about it. i thought hey maybe i'm just off kilter here well i'm not. thing is he's a caring and good man in alot of other areas yet this stone he refuses to overturn and look under is enough to end a marriage. one can't live this way indefinitley it's not healthy for me, to always be under the gun each time he walks in.</p><p> </p><p>than if he doesnt' get what he wants gfgness comes out wakling thru house going thru cabinets in and out of bathroom. like a two year old seriously.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 409748, member: 4514"] good advice and i agree 100%. he's always been like this. it's one of our biggest problems. the level of rejection he feels is in all honesty catastrophic. can't spell. lol. i do feel bad told him go get help ill help in anyway i can. yet i get him yelling at me on phone (majority of our conversations because he always works) that he doesnt' have any issues it's me with all the problems lol. oh ok :) so yea it's been like this for 4 years now. luckily i do not work. boy when i worked it was hugely hard. he'd get upset jealous that i'd have to sleep for work next day. for 42 he's more like 22. and yes this is who i chose to marry. yet he stated dont' worry we'll work out a schedule i'll calm down it'll be ok. ummm i try to implement the schedule and he has a cow. so who needs that after all day difficult child world? to than deal with-an adult difficult child at 1 a.m. throwing mini hissy fit?? Not me!! my therapist and i talked about it. i thought hey maybe i'm just off kilter here well i'm not. thing is he's a caring and good man in alot of other areas yet this stone he refuses to overturn and look under is enough to end a marriage. one can't live this way indefinitley it's not healthy for me, to always be under the gun each time he walks in. than if he doesnt' get what he wants gfgness comes out wakling thru house going thru cabinets in and out of bathroom. like a two year old seriously. [/QUOTE]
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