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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 515600"><p>{{{hugs}}}</p><p></p><p>I know how frustrated you are...</p><p></p><p>Please try to get out of the house with your husband for a bit...it works wonders for me and my own husband. Of course, our difficult child has flown the coop - but when he was home - he was the source of tension in our marriage. Even if we weren't sniping at each other over difficult child - we were sniping at each other over seemingly inconsequential things. That's how I know that my son will not be welcome to live here again. My heart breaks, I stay wide away with worry, I get nauseous at times yet overeat too (go figure) to deal with the anxiety and worry over my difficult child who has cut off all contact with us. Yet, as terrible as those feelings are, they were just as bad - plus the addition of pure unadulterated tension - while he was here. Sure, a bit of respite when he was safely asleep in his own bed - but not enough to make it better the next day.</p><p></p><p>I totally understand that you "like" that she is home... I don't mean to suggest you should feel otherwise. But you need to let your h know that you don't like the effect it has on all of you - but it's the better alternative. The "few months behind you" is likely his safety net. It's safe for him to be disgruntled with difficult child if you are not. been there done that. The idea of both of you being disgruntled to the nth degree at the same time is likely a little worrisome to him even if he doesn't know it. If you're both disgruntled - it won't be good for your difficult child - Know what I mean?? Maybe he just needs some TLC.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 515600"] {{{hugs}}} I know how frustrated you are... Please try to get out of the house with your husband for a bit...it works wonders for me and my own husband. Of course, our difficult child has flown the coop - but when he was home - he was the source of tension in our marriage. Even if we weren't sniping at each other over difficult child - we were sniping at each other over seemingly inconsequential things. That's how I know that my son will not be welcome to live here again. My heart breaks, I stay wide away with worry, I get nauseous at times yet overeat too (go figure) to deal with the anxiety and worry over my difficult child who has cut off all contact with us. Yet, as terrible as those feelings are, they were just as bad - plus the addition of pure unadulterated tension - while he was here. Sure, a bit of respite when he was safely asleep in his own bed - but not enough to make it better the next day. I totally understand that you "like" that she is home... I don't mean to suggest you should feel otherwise. But you need to let your h know that you don't like the effect it has on all of you - but it's the better alternative. The "few months behind you" is likely his safety net. It's safe for him to be disgruntled with difficult child if you are not. been there done that. The idea of both of you being disgruntled to the nth degree at the same time is likely a little worrisome to him even if he doesn't know it. If you're both disgruntled - it won't be good for your difficult child - Know what I mean?? Maybe he just needs some TLC. [/QUOTE]
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