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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 403363" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Is it time to have a blunt talk with husband about either supporting this or getting out of the way because this is the ONLY way to have even a small chance of actually helping difficult child? Or be even more blunt in that he either supports this or you will start thinking about separation and leaving difficult child with him so that you can save easy child from her abuse/thinking her behavior is okay/her influence? maybe not divorce, but definitely having 2 households, regardless of what that means to the budget? </p><p> </p><p>Your husband somehow needs to either get in line with the solution or get out of the way, as it is he is making the problem worse because difficult child KNOWS that Daddy is NOT going to do ANY of what he says - period. So HE is a HUGE part of the problem, and it isn't just difficult child's future you are fighting for - it is your son's as well. does HE deserve the torture that she puts him through? I guaran-dang-tee you that she has done stuff to him that neither you nor husband has even a teensy clue of, and threatened much worse if he told on her!</p><p> </p><p>Let husband know that he is LETTING easy child DOWN by waffling - not just "sticking up" for difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 403363, member: 1233"] Is it time to have a blunt talk with husband about either supporting this or getting out of the way because this is the ONLY way to have even a small chance of actually helping difficult child? Or be even more blunt in that he either supports this or you will start thinking about separation and leaving difficult child with him so that you can save easy child from her abuse/thinking her behavior is okay/her influence? maybe not divorce, but definitely having 2 households, regardless of what that means to the budget? Your husband somehow needs to either get in line with the solution or get out of the way, as it is he is making the problem worse because difficult child KNOWS that Daddy is NOT going to do ANY of what he says - period. So HE is a HUGE part of the problem, and it isn't just difficult child's future you are fighting for - it is your son's as well. does HE deserve the torture that she puts him through? I guaran-dang-tee you that she has done stuff to him that neither you nor husband has even a teensy clue of, and threatened much worse if he told on her! Let husband know that he is LETTING easy child DOWN by waffling - not just "sticking up" for difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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