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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 403825" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Well--</p><p> </p><p>Wed morning I had hopes that husband woud be "resolved" - but then when he called from work he told me that he'd been thinking about it and difficult child seemed to be doing better lately....and things are better at home.</p><p> </p><p>I about lost it "What are you saying?!?!?!?????" I started yelling that if he went into that meeting and told them everything was fine they would say good - great to hear it - and that would be IT!</p><p> </p><p>husband, at that point, kind of had an argument with himself: well, it seems like she's doing better, doesn't it? - well, except for the other night...and that internet thing...and I know she's still not....</p><p> </p><p>We didn't really resolve anything, but husband had to get back to work. And then later, he didn't even want to talk it out...</p><p> </p><p>Yesterday, I was still really upset - so basically, I told him that I had every intention of asking for maximum services and I needed him to either support me or stay home. This was hard enough with him making it seem like I was exaggerating or "scheming" or "breaking up the family".</p><p> </p><p>husband agreed. He agreed that Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is not only necessary but best. He agreed to emphasize to everyone that we have tried all we can - and there is nothing more we can do outpatient. He apologized for making me feel bad. He agreed that this is hard for all of us.</p><p> </p><p>So our TSP meeting is this morning. I am trying to make sure we have our ducks in a row. husband and I have agreed to support each other no matter what and each is going to make sure the other does not waver.</p><p> </p><p>Wish us luck!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 403825, member: 6546"] Well-- Wed morning I had hopes that husband woud be "resolved" - but then when he called from work he told me that he'd been thinking about it and difficult child seemed to be doing better lately....and things are better at home. I about lost it "What are you saying?!?!?!?????" I started yelling that if he went into that meeting and told them everything was fine they would say good - great to hear it - and that would be IT! husband, at that point, kind of had an argument with himself: well, it seems like she's doing better, doesn't it? - well, except for the other night...and that internet thing...and I know she's still not.... We didn't really resolve anything, but husband had to get back to work. And then later, he didn't even want to talk it out... Yesterday, I was still really upset - so basically, I told him that I had every intention of asking for maximum services and I needed him to either support me or stay home. This was hard enough with him making it seem like I was exaggerating or "scheming" or "breaking up the family". husband agreed. He agreed that Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is not only necessary but best. He agreed to emphasize to everyone that we have tried all we can - and there is nothing more we can do outpatient. He apologized for making me feel bad. He agreed that this is hard for all of us. So our TSP meeting is this morning. I am trying to make sure we have our ducks in a row. husband and I have agreed to support each other no matter what and each is going to make sure the other does not waver. Wish us luck!!! [/QUOTE]
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