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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 581819" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>It's difficult to be the one person in the family who negotiates the peace, I feel for you. Is your husband aware of how he moves from fix it guy to blame someone guy? Have you discussed your feelings with him, without blame or ridicule, but simply from a point of observation? I think JJJ's idea of counseling with someone whose expertise is to help the families of victims of a crime is a terrific idea, would your husband be willing to do that? It's got to be a very challenging road for all of you, on top of the gfgness, this is a whole new issue which has it's own pitfalls, pain, loss and difficulties. Professional, outside support seems like it would be able to help everyone, including you, because the weight of trying to make it work for everyone is heavy, it seems you would all benefit. (((HUGS)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 581819, member: 13542"] It's difficult to be the one person in the family who negotiates the peace, I feel for you. Is your husband aware of how he moves from fix it guy to blame someone guy? Have you discussed your feelings with him, without blame or ridicule, but simply from a point of observation? I think JJJ's idea of counseling with someone whose expertise is to help the families of victims of a crime is a terrific idea, would your husband be willing to do that? It's got to be a very challenging road for all of you, on top of the gfgness, this is a whole new issue which has it's own pitfalls, pain, loss and difficulties. Professional, outside support seems like it would be able to help everyone, including you, because the weight of trying to make it work for everyone is heavy, it seems you would all benefit. (((HUGS))) [/QUOTE]
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