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husband just doesn't get it....
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 161536" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Hi, </p><p> </p><p>I'm glad you found us, but sorry you had to. Sounds like you could use a break. And it sounds like you have gone over and above what most parents would do for their son. </p><p> </p><p>I wanted to tell you I was alarmed when you said you keep finding pop cans crushed with holes in them. My x used to smoke crack and that's what they used to smoke crack on. They would bend a pop can, poke holes in it - add cigarette ashes for a "screen" and place the piece of crack on the holes and ashes and use it like a pipe or bong. Are you sure he's just smoking pot - most people who smoke Pot use a glass pipe (also used for smoking crack) but it has a little metal bowl at the end. Or they add it to cigarettes or roll a joint with either rolling papers or paper tampon wrappers. </p><p> </p><p>Another thing used for crack pipes are milk carton handles and little bits of copper scrubbing pads put in the end also as a screen and then duct taped shut. </p><p> </p><p>I almost hate to say this but I hope it is just pot. But as far as NOT adhearing to ALL the rules - the ones he's breaking and pushing limits on ARE serious. It's not like hes going to work and not taking out the trash - the rules are the rules and if no drugs and no drinking are part of the conditions to stay in your home - he's got to face the alternative and leave. </p><p> </p><p>If he is allowed to come back - write out a contract and get him to sign it. Keep it simple - but stick to your rules. </p><p> </p><p>Im so very sorry for you. There is a lot of great been there done that with drug kids wisdom here - I hope you can find some peace. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 161536, member: 4964"] Hi, I'm glad you found us, but sorry you had to. Sounds like you could use a break. And it sounds like you have gone over and above what most parents would do for their son. I wanted to tell you I was alarmed when you said you keep finding pop cans crushed with holes in them. My x used to smoke crack and that's what they used to smoke crack on. They would bend a pop can, poke holes in it - add cigarette ashes for a "screen" and place the piece of crack on the holes and ashes and use it like a pipe or bong. Are you sure he's just smoking pot - most people who smoke Pot use a glass pipe (also used for smoking crack) but it has a little metal bowl at the end. Or they add it to cigarettes or roll a joint with either rolling papers or paper tampon wrappers. Another thing used for crack pipes are milk carton handles and little bits of copper scrubbing pads put in the end also as a screen and then duct taped shut. I almost hate to say this but I hope it is just pot. But as far as NOT adhearing to ALL the rules - the ones he's breaking and pushing limits on ARE serious. It's not like hes going to work and not taking out the trash - the rules are the rules and if no drugs and no drinking are part of the conditions to stay in your home - he's got to face the alternative and leave. If he is allowed to come back - write out a contract and get him to sign it. Keep it simple - but stick to your rules. Im so very sorry for you. There is a lot of great been there done that with drug kids wisdom here - I hope you can find some peace. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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