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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 407778" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>no one wants to touch this one yet, huh... ? dont' be afraid to offend me i'm soo open on this one. the best is i sat here drinking coffee, trying to see if i could put it in perspective, figure out why he would do this, break trust, lie etc? can't come up with any tangible and logical reasons other than him doing what he wants to do AND i text him a few times just saying ok i'm a bit calmer now why would you even do such a thing? what are you or were you thinking? you broke trust in a major way and it isnt' the first time we are in recovery mode.</p><p> </p><p>he isnt' even answering my texts. it's just all so surreal after all the junk that's hit our home, yet another problem.i'm actually sitting here doing the marriage is about forgiveness etc. **** in my mind. yet it keeps popping back in its' also about trust. trust is huge! it may seem like nothing what he did. yet there has been years literally years of him sharing personal info with ex in past and we thru all of that. i did get it he was going thru as i said the multiple degrees of seperation. that's what a friend does they stand by you, get it etc. yet how can i get this?</p><p> </p><p>i even stated that she may somehow someway have triggered this ugly situation, due to the fact and yes i sound paranoid yet u guys dont' know this woman she's wild by talking to her close friend on the Special Education board committee and the district pyschologist than he texts her this??? and more importantly lied to me. didnt' say hey i think she should know what do you think? incase it becomes involved with my kids etc. i could see that conversation happening yet who is he to share my personal info about MY child with her? meanwhile all the time saying how differently hes handling her, cutting her off when she texts i love you, etc. by the way she's remarried.</p><p> </p><p>i just don't know. im giong to try not to put a major hamper on difficult child's day and mine due to this. easy child has riding lesson today and is doing really well suddenly the medications are working, difficult child well work in progress. yet kids know me well, difficult child knows i didnt' do cake this morning. i'm tired of trying toshelter her over and over again. i said simple husband lied to me, i am upset, it doesn't involve you nor is it your fault, dont' worry. i just am upset right now and need to work it thru somehow. because right way my little sponge said what's wrong, why aren't we doing cake? you dont' seem happy today.not my usual smiling what's the plan today mom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 407778, member: 4514"] no one wants to touch this one yet, huh... ? dont' be afraid to offend me i'm soo open on this one. the best is i sat here drinking coffee, trying to see if i could put it in perspective, figure out why he would do this, break trust, lie etc? can't come up with any tangible and logical reasons other than him doing what he wants to do AND i text him a few times just saying ok i'm a bit calmer now why would you even do such a thing? what are you or were you thinking? you broke trust in a major way and it isnt' the first time we are in recovery mode. he isnt' even answering my texts. it's just all so surreal after all the junk that's hit our home, yet another problem.i'm actually sitting here doing the marriage is about forgiveness etc. **** in my mind. yet it keeps popping back in its' also about trust. trust is huge! it may seem like nothing what he did. yet there has been years literally years of him sharing personal info with ex in past and we thru all of that. i did get it he was going thru as i said the multiple degrees of seperation. that's what a friend does they stand by you, get it etc. yet how can i get this? i even stated that she may somehow someway have triggered this ugly situation, due to the fact and yes i sound paranoid yet u guys dont' know this woman she's wild by talking to her close friend on the Special Education board committee and the district pyschologist than he texts her this??? and more importantly lied to me. didnt' say hey i think she should know what do you think? incase it becomes involved with my kids etc. i could see that conversation happening yet who is he to share my personal info about MY child with her? meanwhile all the time saying how differently hes handling her, cutting her off when she texts i love you, etc. by the way she's remarried. i just don't know. im giong to try not to put a major hamper on difficult child's day and mine due to this. easy child has riding lesson today and is doing really well suddenly the medications are working, difficult child well work in progress. yet kids know me well, difficult child knows i didnt' do cake this morning. i'm tired of trying toshelter her over and over again. i said simple husband lied to me, i am upset, it doesn't involve you nor is it your fault, dont' worry. i just am upset right now and need to work it thru somehow. because right way my little sponge said what's wrong, why aren't we doing cake? you dont' seem happy today.not my usual smiling what's the plan today mom. [/QUOTE]
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