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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 407790" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>i've done the stand down with-him in the past regarding the ex, them talking etc. only due to the fact she creates havoc in our lives and to me by talking to her is giving her the ok to do so. a green light in a sense. we've been thru alot together, we have both and i mean both made some mistakes along the way. yet just yesterday we sat down and talked and decided that marriage counseling was a route we wanted to go, that what we have between us is worth fighting for. we both have lost our temper in the heat of the moment with-all the pressure and said some seriously not nice things to eachother in our midnight mtgs i call them when the kids are sleeping and we're talking.</p><p> </p><p>yet this threw me so badly. we just talked about trust yesterday. he looked me dead in the face and actually lied to me. trust is huge for me. it truly is the foundation that keeps a marraige or relationship still alive. he lied not once but twice. and with whom the infamous ex wife. this will spread like wild fire thru the neighborhood now due to my husband. that just seems so incredibly wrong to me on so many levels.</p><p> </p><p>what am i prepared to do? sheesh i have no clue i'm just working thru my feelings on this one this morning. how much can one forgive in a relationship without compromising ones self? do i love this man? yes i truly do love him flaws and all. for a while i was on the fence because he's rough at times with-the chaotic work schedule chaotic kids his nutsy ex and his nutsy family. yet i had to say ok do i love him, can i imagine my life without him? the answers were all no.</p><p> </p><p>yet now being backstabbed by the man i trust and love and am married to? who sat there yesterday telling me cps was no big deal to calm down? than i have to say ok maybe h'es texting his ex due to stress? not ok. not ok. than for him to ignore me as if i've done something wrong when he knows deep down inside how very messed up this is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 407790, member: 4514"] i've done the stand down with-him in the past regarding the ex, them talking etc. only due to the fact she creates havoc in our lives and to me by talking to her is giving her the ok to do so. a green light in a sense. we've been thru alot together, we have both and i mean both made some mistakes along the way. yet just yesterday we sat down and talked and decided that marriage counseling was a route we wanted to go, that what we have between us is worth fighting for. we both have lost our temper in the heat of the moment with-all the pressure and said some seriously not nice things to eachother in our midnight mtgs i call them when the kids are sleeping and we're talking. yet this threw me so badly. we just talked about trust yesterday. he looked me dead in the face and actually lied to me. trust is huge for me. it truly is the foundation that keeps a marraige or relationship still alive. he lied not once but twice. and with whom the infamous ex wife. this will spread like wild fire thru the neighborhood now due to my husband. that just seems so incredibly wrong to me on so many levels. what am i prepared to do? sheesh i have no clue i'm just working thru my feelings on this one this morning. how much can one forgive in a relationship without compromising ones self? do i love this man? yes i truly do love him flaws and all. for a while i was on the fence because he's rough at times with-the chaotic work schedule chaotic kids his nutsy ex and his nutsy family. yet i had to say ok do i love him, can i imagine my life without him? the answers were all no. yet now being backstabbed by the man i trust and love and am married to? who sat there yesterday telling me cps was no big deal to calm down? than i have to say ok maybe h'es texting his ex due to stress? not ok. not ok. than for him to ignore me as if i've done something wrong when he knows deep down inside how very messed up this is. [/QUOTE]
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