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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 407799" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>I'm thinking it's almost a kid thing--they lie because they don't want to get into trouble and then it makes it worse.</p><p>Also, if he really thinks it's not that big of a deal, then he's so deep into the dysfunctional relationships that he does need counseling to help him discern what it a big deal and what isn't, Know what I mean?? Sometimes we get so used to all this ^**^!@@ that we think it's all okay.</p><p>I don't think he "gets" the lying/honesty/trust part. I think he just acted on the spur of the moment so you wouldn't blow up during the mtng.</p><p>And, like a kid, he shouldn't have been texting during the mtng anyway. He needs to put his exwife on the back burner, Know what I mean?? She's not the priority right now. That would be a good topic for a counseling session right there.</p><p></p><p>I have no idea what she has a right to know and not know. I have no idea of the legal issues. I'm just saying he needs to work through the get-into-trouble-because-I'm-getting-sucked-into-old habits-then-get-out-of-trouble-by-lying routine.</p><p></p><p>Sorry I've been off the boards (don't know if I'm any help anyway) but I had sciatica for 4 mo's, can sit for about an hr now, then went out of town, then my computer crashed, and now I'm painting and having long days.</p><p></p><p>Best of luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 407799, member: 3419"] I'm thinking it's almost a kid thing--they lie because they don't want to get into trouble and then it makes it worse. Also, if he really thinks it's not that big of a deal, then he's so deep into the dysfunctional relationships that he does need counseling to help him discern what it a big deal and what isn't, Know what I mean?? Sometimes we get so used to all this ^**^!@@ that we think it's all okay. I don't think he "gets" the lying/honesty/trust part. I think he just acted on the spur of the moment so you wouldn't blow up during the mtng. And, like a kid, he shouldn't have been texting during the mtng anyway. He needs to put his exwife on the back burner, Know what I mean?? She's not the priority right now. That would be a good topic for a counseling session right there. I have no idea what she has a right to know and not know. I have no idea of the legal issues. I'm just saying he needs to work through the get-into-trouble-because-I'm-getting-sucked-into-old habits-then-get-out-of-trouble-by-lying routine. Sorry I've been off the boards (don't know if I'm any help anyway) but I had sciatica for 4 mo's, can sit for about an hr now, then went out of town, then my computer crashed, and now I'm painting and having long days. Best of luck! [/QUOTE]
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