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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 407856" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>ex'a are a piece of baggage that come when getting together with someone who has a past...especially kids. 18 years with the woman is really going to keep him tied to her plus the fact that he has what 2 or 3 kids? Its a shame that you all cant have a very workable relationship because that does cause havoc for everyone however the kids are going to go home and report whatever is going on in your house. Thats a given so whether he tells her or not, she is going to find out. It is better he tells her the truth than have it filtered by kids who get it wrong. </p><p></p><p>Now as far as trust, that is a biggie. Tony and I have had our fair share of problems in that area. Mostly with him trusting me to be honest. Now, both of our lives are open books. As Dr Phil likes to say, we are transparent. I wouldnt go through his cell phone unless he asked me to and he wouldnt go through mine, though thats because he couldnt figure it out...lol. I would be happy to open it up and let him read every thing in there. I dont do anything I wouldnt want him to know about...anymore. It would tick me off though if he thought he had to ask. That would probably cause a huge fight. </p><p></p><p>I hear on the radio, normally around Valentines Day, requests for people who have been together for many years to call in and tell the secrets to staying together for a long time. Well I guess I qualify for the many years now since in July it will be 28! WOW!!! We have fought, we have gone through extremely hard times, we have been so broke we havent known where our next meal was going to come from, we have been down in the trenches of gfgdom, but one thing we never did was give up on each other even if we sometimes thought we couldnt stand to look at each other another day. Somehow we just kept on going knowing that we were together for a reason. What that reason is, sometimes we still dont know...lol. But I guess we will just keep going on and now we look back and remember that for some reason, someone put us together to do this job and we did it. And we had some fun along the way. We hope we have some more fun and have at least 20 more years.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 407856, member: 1514"] ex'a are a piece of baggage that come when getting together with someone who has a past...especially kids. 18 years with the woman is really going to keep him tied to her plus the fact that he has what 2 or 3 kids? Its a shame that you all cant have a very workable relationship because that does cause havoc for everyone however the kids are going to go home and report whatever is going on in your house. Thats a given so whether he tells her or not, she is going to find out. It is better he tells her the truth than have it filtered by kids who get it wrong. Now as far as trust, that is a biggie. Tony and I have had our fair share of problems in that area. Mostly with him trusting me to be honest. Now, both of our lives are open books. As Dr Phil likes to say, we are transparent. I wouldnt go through his cell phone unless he asked me to and he wouldnt go through mine, though thats because he couldnt figure it out...lol. I would be happy to open it up and let him read every thing in there. I dont do anything I wouldnt want him to know about...anymore. It would tick me off though if he thought he had to ask. That would probably cause a huge fight. I hear on the radio, normally around Valentines Day, requests for people who have been together for many years to call in and tell the secrets to staying together for a long time. Well I guess I qualify for the many years now since in July it will be 28! WOW!!! We have fought, we have gone through extremely hard times, we have been so broke we havent known where our next meal was going to come from, we have been down in the trenches of gfgdom, but one thing we never did was give up on each other even if we sometimes thought we couldnt stand to look at each other another day. Somehow we just kept on going knowing that we were together for a reason. What that reason is, sometimes we still dont know...lol. But I guess we will just keep going on and now we look back and remember that for some reason, someone put us together to do this job and we did it. And we had some fun along the way. We hope we have some more fun and have at least 20 more years. [/QUOTE]
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