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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 407870" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>thanks i really appreciate everyone kicking up their personal experience with this issue to help me out it's extremely thoughtful and the time to even type it is appreciated. i get what your saying about lying i do. and the white lies as you said i let fly. it's hard yet i'm not giong to freak over him going to kmart than telling me he didnt'. he did that mos. ago.</p><p> </p><p>i think the issue at hand is more on a basis of we have a history him and i. in the early years he was all over the board, he's come into his own to an extent as of late and i can see some effort and growth there. he cheated early on with-a waitress he was texting, than with another woman an old friend and their conversations gota little too personal if you know what i mean. nothing explicit yet a whole lotta flirting. that was years ago yet i threatened than to leave. he cleaned up his act came to understand he was lashing out and craving attention due to his ex of 18 years turning gay suddenly. so yea we both healed from that.</p><p> </p><p>yet those knee jerk reactions are still there in me with him. so this isn't my past of my own so much partly it's more my past with him that's taught me. if his ex were somewhat normal id' be totally ok i really would. yet she's vindictive openly bashes me to kids neighbors ppl here which has lead me to have almost no friends here adn lifes dificult here. than she bashes me on facebook to him. the fun never stops with her. texts on wedding night, honeymoon, when we land.</p><p> </p><p>problem is he's encouraging them if you ask me and he has to do some soul searching to figure out why he's doing that, why he runs to her each time life slams him.he manages to bring it up to her let her know sort of thing. he talked to her winds up after he left house on his way to therapy after cps lol. laughable right? he called her to tell her and supposedly ask her if she did it.</p><p> </p><p>time will tell,meanwhile i'lll work on kids still hard. i'll get myself in position with difficult child to decide what school will be next, maybe figure out how i can make some money from home without husband we'll tank. than we'll c i'll set a time limit to the therapy. if there isnt' any improvement than tha'Tourette's Syndrome that. truly. we only get one life and i cant' spend it stressing and worrying over this stupid junk. i love him, yet love isnt' necessarily enough all the time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 407870, member: 4514"] thanks i really appreciate everyone kicking up their personal experience with this issue to help me out it's extremely thoughtful and the time to even type it is appreciated. i get what your saying about lying i do. and the white lies as you said i let fly. it's hard yet i'm not giong to freak over him going to kmart than telling me he didnt'. he did that mos. ago. i think the issue at hand is more on a basis of we have a history him and i. in the early years he was all over the board, he's come into his own to an extent as of late and i can see some effort and growth there. he cheated early on with-a waitress he was texting, than with another woman an old friend and their conversations gota little too personal if you know what i mean. nothing explicit yet a whole lotta flirting. that was years ago yet i threatened than to leave. he cleaned up his act came to understand he was lashing out and craving attention due to his ex of 18 years turning gay suddenly. so yea we both healed from that. yet those knee jerk reactions are still there in me with him. so this isn't my past of my own so much partly it's more my past with him that's taught me. if his ex were somewhat normal id' be totally ok i really would. yet she's vindictive openly bashes me to kids neighbors ppl here which has lead me to have almost no friends here adn lifes dificult here. than she bashes me on facebook to him. the fun never stops with her. texts on wedding night, honeymoon, when we land. problem is he's encouraging them if you ask me and he has to do some soul searching to figure out why he's doing that, why he runs to her each time life slams him.he manages to bring it up to her let her know sort of thing. he talked to her winds up after he left house on his way to therapy after cps lol. laughable right? he called her to tell her and supposedly ask her if she did it. time will tell,meanwhile i'lll work on kids still hard. i'll get myself in position with difficult child to decide what school will be next, maybe figure out how i can make some money from home without husband we'll tank. than we'll c i'll set a time limit to the therapy. if there isnt' any improvement than tha'Tourette's Syndrome that. truly. we only get one life and i cant' spend it stressing and worrying over this stupid junk. i love him, yet love isnt' necessarily enough all the time. [/QUOTE]
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