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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 407917" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>LOL....did I mention that I have an Ex. Truthfully, I can't stand him. I absolutely remain resentful of every time he didn't "show" to pick up the kids when I had them waiting and they were so eager to go see "Daddy"....put a knife in my heart, which he absolutely knew in advance.</p><p> </p><p>BUT for the sake of the children it was necessary that we communicate. I swear if it wasn't totally necessary I would never see the man. It doesn't matter what the 2nd marraige vows say. The most important aspect is the children. She may be a B but they are her kids. They visit your home regularly and she has every right to monitor what is happening. Fortunately for me my Ex did not marry women who cared about his biokids <strong>but </strong>(as we say in the South emulating Scarlett)</p><p>"as God is my witness" I <strong>always </strong>monitored what was going on in Ex's house in order to protect my children. You can't have the innocence of a first marriage when you have four kids from two marriages. Ain't going to happen. The children come first. Doesn't matter if they were sired by him and Ex or were sired by you and your Ex. Adults have to step up to plate for the kids. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 407917, member: 35"] LOL....did I mention that I have an Ex. Truthfully, I can't stand him. I absolutely remain resentful of every time he didn't "show" to pick up the kids when I had them waiting and they were so eager to go see "Daddy"....put a knife in my heart, which he absolutely knew in advance. BUT for the sake of the children it was necessary that we communicate. I swear if it wasn't totally necessary I would never see the man. It doesn't matter what the 2nd marraige vows say. The most important aspect is the children. She may be a B but they are her kids. They visit your home regularly and she has every right to monitor what is happening. Fortunately for me my Ex did not marry women who cared about his biokids [B]but [/B](as we say in the South emulating Scarlett) "as God is my witness" I [B]always [/B]monitored what was going on in Ex's house in order to protect my children. You can't have the innocence of a first marriage when you have four kids from two marriages. Ain't going to happen. The children come first. Doesn't matter if they were sired by him and Ex or were sired by you and your Ex. Adults have to step up to plate for the kids. DDD [/QUOTE]
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