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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 340841" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Oh, boy, does that sound familiar!</p><p> </p><p>I cannot begin to tell you how many yrs it took to get my husband on the same page. He's a chiro and very anti-drug.</p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry.</p><p> </p><p>Can you get a better diagnosis than just ODD? That's a symptom, in my humble opinion. Have you done any neuropsychologist testing? Psychoeducational testing? What was your son like as a baby? Lots of ear infections and stomach issues? Was he a happy baby? Talk on time? </p><p> </p><p>One thing I asked on the boards here, when difficult child was very young, was whether to go ahead and medicate difficult child with-o telling husband. Most of the board members urged me not to, as it would destroy a huge amt of trust in our marriage.</p><p>So I forced this issue, forced husband into family counseling with-a child psychologist, and after many sessions, school performance issues, and some violence from difficult child (not to mention drama and situational depression on my part) it all came together.</p><p> </p><p>I hope you don't have to go through all that!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 340841, member: 3419"] Oh, boy, does that sound familiar! I cannot begin to tell you how many yrs it took to get my husband on the same page. He's a chiro and very anti-drug. I am so sorry. Can you get a better diagnosis than just ODD? That's a symptom, in my humble opinion. Have you done any neuropsychologist testing? Psychoeducational testing? What was your son like as a baby? Lots of ear infections and stomach issues? Was he a happy baby? Talk on time? One thing I asked on the boards here, when difficult child was very young, was whether to go ahead and medicate difficult child with-o telling husband. Most of the board members urged me not to, as it would destroy a huge amt of trust in our marriage. So I forced this issue, forced husband into family counseling with-a child psychologist, and after many sessions, school performance issues, and some violence from difficult child (not to mention drama and situational depression on my part) it all came together. I hope you don't have to go through all that! [/QUOTE]
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