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husband's BIG secret.... and do I have enough proof?
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 446980" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>I don't understand custody laws in the US so have no advice on that but wanted to say I'm so sorry for all of this and I hope you can find a way to get this settled in a way good for the kids. What a horrid situation to face and I hope maybe a lawyer might have advice that is helpful to answer some of your concerns.</p><p></p><p>Given I do not understand the ins and outs of US laws, I can only say what might/could happen here in Canada. In a situation like that he would have to prove she isn't living with him and even if she is, in spite of any proof to current status of the relationship, even the previous history would be enough to offer court protection on contact terms if they live together. Even if they do not live together, here the previous proof of the past conduct would be enough to order terms like you mentioned (her not having contact during his visits). Actually here it could probably be deemed supervised contact even for him just to ensure none of this gets to kids but via you (eventually) and in a manner of your choosing (with therapists etc). </p><p></p><p>Just want to offer hugs, support, bead rattling for a solution and a way for you to move past this with your kids. I can't imagine. (((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 446980, member: 4264"] I don't understand custody laws in the US so have no advice on that but wanted to say I'm so sorry for all of this and I hope you can find a way to get this settled in a way good for the kids. What a horrid situation to face and I hope maybe a lawyer might have advice that is helpful to answer some of your concerns. Given I do not understand the ins and outs of US laws, I can only say what might/could happen here in Canada. In a situation like that he would have to prove she isn't living with him and even if she is, in spite of any proof to current status of the relationship, even the previous history would be enough to offer court protection on contact terms if they live together. Even if they do not live together, here the previous proof of the past conduct would be enough to order terms like you mentioned (her not having contact during his visits). Actually here it could probably be deemed supervised contact even for him just to ensure none of this gets to kids but via you (eventually) and in a manner of your choosing (with therapists etc). Just want to offer hugs, support, bead rattling for a solution and a way for you to move past this with your kids. I can't imagine. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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