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husband's BIG secret.... and do I have enough proof?
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 447159" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p><strong>Seriously,</strong> thanks for the tax support. That part I do have 100% covered (I've worked as a tax preparer) he filed as he should for the first 2 years - Married filing separate. I 'gave' him the kids as dependents the first year, because it was an even split time wise, and it didn't help or hurt my return because my income was so low. The past two years he's been filing as head of household, which he is entitled to do if he is supporting a family member who makes below a certain threshold (sister obviously isn't working) I do have to find out who his second dependent is because it MUST be a close family member. If he's claiming his mother, then I will report him. My CPA friend said that if we both tried claiming the kids, the IRS would be all over it, so I don't think that is happening.</p><p></p><p>Google earth is always about 6 months behind for me. Would be so nice if it have a live video feed, but that's getting really "Big Brothery"</p><p></p><p><strong>Step</strong>, Thanks. I never thought of the ramifications of ME going up to get pics. I'll get those thoughts right out of my head. Yes, I'm working my butt off right now to catch up from that stupid transmission, and maybe be able to get ahead for some PI money.</p><p></p><p>Think again. It is illegal in all 50 states - Felony. </p><p></p><p>There is a 'new' phenomena (medical condition) called GSA (Genetic Sexual Attraction) which occurs when family members (not just siblings but parents too) are separated at VERY young ages or earlier due to adoption or even IVF, and then they reunite as adults and fall MADLY in love, often NOT knowing (at first at least) that they are indeed direct blood relations. Such situations, if found out, are deemed illegal as well. husband doesn't qualify for that since they started their antics as 'kids' and were raised raised together, although not consistently (yeah, their childhood was a NIGHTMARE)</p><p></p><p></p><p>That's what I'm hoping to pull off, but have to be prepared for 'worst case scenarios'. Fortunately, divorce record details are not searchable online here. Someone has to want to find the info or know what they are looking for and go down to the clerk's office and request it.</p><p></p><p>As far as his abandonment goes, it's been 4 years. Yes, it would be a slam dunk but he's *indicating* that HE wants full custody. He won't get it, but the courts have moved moved towards "shared parental responsibility" They don't even use the term visitation any more. Now it's called "time-sharing" That coupled with crazy court rulings, is what gets me concerned.</p><p></p><p>The good news is that he was told that he should file an official counter-petition, but he has not done that yet. I can still hope that he won't and then things will go much more smoothly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 447159, member: 11965"] [B]Seriously,[/B] thanks for the tax support. That part I do have 100% covered (I've worked as a tax preparer) he filed as he should for the first 2 years - Married filing separate. I 'gave' him the kids as dependents the first year, because it was an even split time wise, and it didn't help or hurt my return because my income was so low. The past two years he's been filing as head of household, which he is entitled to do if he is supporting a family member who makes below a certain threshold (sister obviously isn't working) I do have to find out who his second dependent is because it MUST be a close family member. If he's claiming his mother, then I will report him. My CPA friend said that if we both tried claiming the kids, the IRS would be all over it, so I don't think that is happening. Google earth is always about 6 months behind for me. Would be so nice if it have a live video feed, but that's getting really "Big Brothery" [B]Step[/B], Thanks. I never thought of the ramifications of ME going up to get pics. I'll get those thoughts right out of my head. Yes, I'm working my butt off right now to catch up from that stupid transmission, and maybe be able to get ahead for some PI money. Think again. It is illegal in all 50 states - Felony. There is a 'new' phenomena (medical condition) called GSA (Genetic Sexual Attraction) which occurs when family members (not just siblings but parents too) are separated at VERY young ages or earlier due to adoption or even IVF, and then they reunite as adults and fall MADLY in love, often NOT knowing (at first at least) that they are indeed direct blood relations. Such situations, if found out, are deemed illegal as well. husband doesn't qualify for that since they started their antics as 'kids' and were raised raised together, although not consistently (yeah, their childhood was a NIGHTMARE) That's what I'm hoping to pull off, but have to be prepared for 'worst case scenarios'. Fortunately, divorce record details are not searchable online here. Someone has to want to find the info or know what they are looking for and go down to the clerk's office and request it. As far as his abandonment goes, it's been 4 years. Yes, it would be a slam dunk but he's *indicating* that HE wants full custody. He won't get it, but the courts have moved moved towards "shared parental responsibility" They don't even use the term visitation any more. Now it's called "time-sharing" That coupled with crazy court rulings, is what gets me concerned. The good news is that he was told that he should file an official counter-petition, but he has not done that yet. I can still hope that he won't and then things will go much more smoothly. [/QUOTE]
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