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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 211223" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>LOL Star. I do my own maintainence with sister in law's hellp. We don't have Jiffy Lube and the other oil changing place went out of business, darn it. I did make a worldly effort on friday to get him to take the darn thing into the shop we use, but then I got the money song and dance. (and no we really don't have it) But I was willing to give up 2 weeks of groceries if necessary to shut the man up.</p><p> </p><p>I'd refuse to let husband drive my car, except his job is over an hour away. A cab is out of the question.</p><p> </p><p>When he refused to turn the deer accident into the insurance he was setting up an old ploy for his Mom........Car falls apart and she buys him a new one. Only mother in law lost all her "money" when the stock market kept plummeting. Basically the woman is broke. So no Mom to bail him out this time. </p><p> </p><p>I don't take it personally, none of it. I just get sick of listening to it. husband is a bonafide difficult child to the nth degree. I spend 99 percent of the time ignoring him.</p><p> </p><p>Still, like I tell sister in law, if the man's car goes he's gonna overtake mine out of necessity. And then I will not be in a good place and his life will turn from suffering (believe me he does) to H*ll on earth. I had to wait 20 yrs for a car of my own and get run over by a truck to pay for it. I will not happily hand it over to him to keep him employed.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/angry-very.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":angry-very:" title="angry-very :angry-very:" data-shortname=":angry-very:" /></p><p> </p><p>And he's already in trouble at work as I refused to let him use my car on days when I couldn't ride to school with Nichole.</p><p> </p><p>Just POes me to a new level that circumstances he created may force me to hand over a car I literally had to nearly die to get.</p><p> </p><p>Oh, should also insert here that some of this is husband's way of getting back at me because I refused to hand any of my student loan refund over to him, refused to pay on the bills, or to pay off the horrendous dept he's aquired with those payday loan places. I refuse because all the times before when I did it.....he just ran them all up again and it didn't help us at all. Instead I'm using my money for things we've needed for eons and can never buy because there is never any money.</p><p> </p><p>And this is also a major move to sabotage my going to school. (no car = no way to get to school) I should be able to enter the actual RN program next fall. husband is getting scared. While he pretended to be supportive, he never dreamed I'd make it this far.</p><p> </p><p>Tough cookies. Even if I'm forced to hand over the car......I'll walk the 5 miles to the college and back if necessary.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /></p><p> </p><p>husband will be long gone once I'm out of school. (that's one of the major reasons for going) Finanacially I just can't do it right now, and the bleep bleep owes me that much. </p><p> </p><p>On medications or off, he's a major difficult child, far beyond either Travis or Nichole. In his own league.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening. Vent over. Doesn't do me much good except to keep from strangling him anyway. lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 211223, member: 84"] LOL Star. I do my own maintainence with sister in law's hellp. We don't have Jiffy Lube and the other oil changing place went out of business, darn it. I did make a worldly effort on friday to get him to take the darn thing into the shop we use, but then I got the money song and dance. (and no we really don't have it) But I was willing to give up 2 weeks of groceries if necessary to shut the man up. I'd refuse to let husband drive my car, except his job is over an hour away. A cab is out of the question. When he refused to turn the deer accident into the insurance he was setting up an old ploy for his Mom........Car falls apart and she buys him a new one. Only mother in law lost all her "money" when the stock market kept plummeting. Basically the woman is broke. So no Mom to bail him out this time. I don't take it personally, none of it. I just get sick of listening to it. husband is a bonafide difficult child to the nth degree. I spend 99 percent of the time ignoring him. Still, like I tell sister in law, if the man's car goes he's gonna overtake mine out of necessity. And then I will not be in a good place and his life will turn from suffering (believe me he does) to H*ll on earth. I had to wait 20 yrs for a car of my own and get run over by a truck to pay for it. I will not happily hand it over to him to keep him employed.:angry::angry-very: And he's already in trouble at work as I refused to let him use my car on days when I couldn't ride to school with Nichole. Just POes me to a new level that circumstances he created may force me to hand over a car I literally had to nearly die to get. Oh, should also insert here that some of this is husband's way of getting back at me because I refused to hand any of my student loan refund over to him, refused to pay on the bills, or to pay off the horrendous dept he's aquired with those payday loan places. I refuse because all the times before when I did it.....he just ran them all up again and it didn't help us at all. Instead I'm using my money for things we've needed for eons and can never buy because there is never any money. And this is also a major move to sabotage my going to school. (no car = no way to get to school) I should be able to enter the actual RN program next fall. husband is getting scared. While he pretended to be supportive, he never dreamed I'd make it this far. Tough cookies. Even if I'm forced to hand over the car......I'll walk the 5 miles to the college and back if necessary.:angry: husband will be long gone once I'm out of school. (that's one of the major reasons for going) Finanacially I just can't do it right now, and the bleep bleep owes me that much. On medications or off, he's a major difficult child, far beyond either Travis or Nichole. In his own league. Thanks for listening. Vent over. Doesn't do me much good except to keep from strangling him anyway. lol [/QUOTE]
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