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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 360260" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>If this doctor is going to report that difficult child is "cured" I would call up any therapist you could find and get at least one or two visits asap so that the ins co would see that other docs do NOT consider her cured. I would also call the ins co and say that the doctor has said this and is wrong, you are still seeing no change. It can keep the ins co from denying payment on medications, etc...</p><p></p><p>Next time a doctor suggests something like this fresh start feces, don't do it. It really is okay to walk out of the session and tell husband and difficult child that the idjit was full of it and no way are we following this, we are finding a therapist with a brain. I have done that with several recommendations from tdocs. If it defies common sense and you KNOW it isn't going to do anything but waste YOUR time, it is okay to say no. Even to a therapist. You don't even have to tell the therapist.</p><p></p><p>I would worry about what effect this woman has had on difficult child. what has she been telling difficult child if she thinks refusing to do even the kdg level stuff on your chart is "progress"?</p><p></p><p>Maybe with the next therapist you need to sit in on the first month or so's worth of appointments so that therapist gets the REAL story. I would even go to the first appointment or two without difficult child. You, or you and husband only. That way you can do the history, show videos of her tantrums, etc.. so that the therapist gets your side before difficult child tries to snow her. And so that you can get some idea of whether or not the therapist has any common sense. If you still have the behavior chart I would keep it in your parent report to show the new tdocs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 360260, member: 1233"] If this doctor is going to report that difficult child is "cured" I would call up any therapist you could find and get at least one or two visits asap so that the ins co would see that other docs do NOT consider her cured. I would also call the ins co and say that the doctor has said this and is wrong, you are still seeing no change. It can keep the ins co from denying payment on medications, etc... Next time a doctor suggests something like this fresh start feces, don't do it. It really is okay to walk out of the session and tell husband and difficult child that the idjit was full of it and no way are we following this, we are finding a therapist with a brain. I have done that with several recommendations from tdocs. If it defies common sense and you KNOW it isn't going to do anything but waste YOUR time, it is okay to say no. Even to a therapist. You don't even have to tell the therapist. I would worry about what effect this woman has had on difficult child. what has she been telling difficult child if she thinks refusing to do even the kdg level stuff on your chart is "progress"? Maybe with the next therapist you need to sit in on the first month or so's worth of appointments so that therapist gets the REAL story. I would even go to the first appointment or two without difficult child. You, or you and husband only. That way you can do the history, show videos of her tantrums, etc.. so that the therapist gets your side before difficult child tries to snow her. And so that you can get some idea of whether or not the therapist has any common sense. If you still have the behavior chart I would keep it in your parent report to show the new tdocs. [/QUOTE]
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