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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 516252"><p>Welcome kdeter1121, you will find a lot of help here. Are sons are twins! Yes I my son threatens and hist me all the time. He leaves bruises on me and his sister ,spits, destroys his toys our stuff, still draws on walls, he bites himself as well. He turns down or off the cold knob for the refrigerator knowing it will ruin the food. His his way or the highway! He does not act like this at school, minor trouble like not listening and not completing his work. He just turned 6 which I need to switch to the older kids one, water cooler I think? He does have speech issues as well, born 4 weeks early. He got up 4 times a night as a baby and at 11/2 or so.. he started his behavior with it getting worse. It calmed down, but back up. They told me its was terrible twos , he is all boy, I need to let him grow and its my fault. Yes, boys are more active than girls, all kids are different. But we moms know, our child is beyond little different!</p><p></p><p>I have spanked my son, and this only makes him more violent. You will hear to get the Books "The Explosive Child" and another. As far as discipline, you can take everything away and make him "earn his toys back" , I tried that once and my son went back to his usual self. So the book has 3 plans to follow, it in one says to include him on choices etc. I was told here from others charts and routine as much as possible, choices, testing if you can and many other ideas! Yes, genetics can play a role! Its hard, no one believes me except this forum and my close friends and family-because no severe trouble at school. But he acts this way with his Aunt, in stores, my dad, starting his dad and one of my friends. Keep documents, record him if you can, you can keep to review and eventually show the Dr.s if needed. Hugs and good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 516252"] Welcome kdeter1121, you will find a lot of help here. Are sons are twins! Yes I my son threatens and hist me all the time. He leaves bruises on me and his sister ,spits, destroys his toys our stuff, still draws on walls, he bites himself as well. He turns down or off the cold knob for the refrigerator knowing it will ruin the food. His his way or the highway! He does not act like this at school, minor trouble like not listening and not completing his work. He just turned 6 which I need to switch to the older kids one, water cooler I think? He does have speech issues as well, born 4 weeks early. He got up 4 times a night as a baby and at 11/2 or so.. he started his behavior with it getting worse. It calmed down, but back up. They told me its was terrible twos , he is all boy, I need to let him grow and its my fault. Yes, boys are more active than girls, all kids are different. But we moms know, our child is beyond little different! I have spanked my son, and this only makes him more violent. You will hear to get the Books "The Explosive Child" and another. As far as discipline, you can take everything away and make him "earn his toys back" , I tried that once and my son went back to his usual self. So the book has 3 plans to follow, it in one says to include him on choices etc. I was told here from others charts and routine as much as possible, choices, testing if you can and many other ideas! Yes, genetics can play a role! Its hard, no one believes me except this forum and my close friends and family-because no severe trouble at school. But he acts this way with his Aunt, in stores, my dad, starting his dad and one of my friends. Keep documents, record him if you can, you can keep to review and eventually show the Dr.s if needed. Hugs and good luck. [/QUOTE]
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