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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 213612" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>OK I think I now understand a little better. It seems that in some of your posts you are lecturing rather than giving input. Perhaps if you change the wording of your responses you will get a better reaction. It also sounds like at times you are presenting yourself as an expert, when many of us have been through years of this stuff and resent someone coming in and telling us what to do.</p><p></p><p>I wish that some members would be honest and give you that feedback instead of deciding to ignore you or put down your responses. I am surprised the moderator didn't give you some advice on how to make your stay with us more comfortable. If you have truly come here looking for mutual support in this difficult child world we live in, then you are like all of us here and deserve the same consideration and respect. But it is better to walk softly when you first come in until we all get to know you.</p><p></p><p>I hope this is helpful. </p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 213612, member: 59"] OK I think I now understand a little better. It seems that in some of your posts you are lecturing rather than giving input. Perhaps if you change the wording of your responses you will get a better reaction. It also sounds like at times you are presenting yourself as an expert, when many of us have been through years of this stuff and resent someone coming in and telling us what to do. I wish that some members would be honest and give you that feedback instead of deciding to ignore you or put down your responses. I am surprised the moderator didn't give you some advice on how to make your stay with us more comfortable. If you have truly come here looking for mutual support in this difficult child world we live in, then you are like all of us here and deserve the same consideration and respect. But it is better to walk softly when you first come in until we all get to know you. I hope this is helpful. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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