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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 544883" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>W,</p><p>You are doing all the right things. I do want to tell you that no matter what you said to easy child she may not tell the truth either. Not to scare you. Our difficult child was repeatedly molested over 2 years by a cousin who came almost every weekend. She did not disclose until she was 15 years old and in residential treatment. Despite all of our training and always telling her that she could tell us even if threatened-despite never leaving them alone-he was able to get her in the middle of the night. She thought it would tear the family apart to tell us and that she should just bury it. All 11 years later-she has a PTSD and Borderline (BPD) and the suppression may have aggrivated this. Being vigilant is important-never alone together. My buddy in Jr. high was abused by a brother 7 years older and since my kids are 7 years apart-I was worried from the get go. Despite this, the cousin still was able to do what he did. I hope I am not projecting-just supporting what the nurse said. Hang in there!</p><p></p><p>I do understand not wanting to tweak him so he'll run. It just frosts me that we have to do that or they will not be here for their appointments and then we have to start over again-been there done that! Mine is gone (after months of not running) as we speak and she has an appoinment that she made on Tues. I have the same worry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 544883, member: 11001"] W, You are doing all the right things. I do want to tell you that no matter what you said to easy child she may not tell the truth either. Not to scare you. Our difficult child was repeatedly molested over 2 years by a cousin who came almost every weekend. She did not disclose until she was 15 years old and in residential treatment. Despite all of our training and always telling her that she could tell us even if threatened-despite never leaving them alone-he was able to get her in the middle of the night. She thought it would tear the family apart to tell us and that she should just bury it. All 11 years later-she has a PTSD and Borderline (BPD) and the suppression may have aggrivated this. Being vigilant is important-never alone together. My buddy in Jr. high was abused by a brother 7 years older and since my kids are 7 years apart-I was worried from the get go. Despite this, the cousin still was able to do what he did. I hope I am not projecting-just supporting what the nurse said. Hang in there! I do understand not wanting to tweak him so he'll run. It just frosts me that we have to do that or they will not be here for their appointments and then we have to start over again-been there done that! Mine is gone (after months of not running) as we speak and she has an appoinment that she made on Tues. I have the same worry. [/QUOTE]
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