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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 436794" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>HNR - </p><p></p><p>I thought your post said "I am a pariah"......lol. So technically? I just thought you misspelled a word, which true is pretty uncommon for you. Still funny though. Pariah. Oh you slay me. As far as that progesterone cream? Is that something you can eat? Or do you wear it, or what? I dunno, but I can tell you that there are a few days a month where I have PMDD, and had it not been for losing weight, and adjusting my diet thanks to the diabetes test I think it's an AN1 or something test, dropping a lot of sugar and getting on triple AD's a day? I honestly felt that there were times when I was a danger to others. I wasn't joking when I went into the doctors office and said "If you don't help me, I'm going to end up in prison." It wasn't just road rage, or sensitivity issues off the chart. I needed and wanted to be so alone I couldn't even bear to hear anyone breathing or the sound of a ceiling fan or birds. Even wind annoyed me. I thought I was going nuts. And of course everyone sends you to your GP and he sends you to your OBGYN or a HRT doctor. Well that doesn't do a whole lot of good if it's not an obstetric or tutu problem. There are doctors, and most of them are female that deal with hormones and change of life issues who can and will do testing on you and are VERY MUCH more intune with what your needs are than an OBGYN, or a GP. I saw a woman on the Dr. Oz show and they took a woman that described what you have (I had) and sent her to different doctors but the one that specialized in change of life issues took one look at her and knew EXACTLY what to do. It was amazing. The supplements she put this woman on - and the way she explained how the ovaries are not putting out the estrogen and it depletes the brain of the same chemicals making the brain think you are going crazy and start to be mean....It would be worth your while to look up the show - find out what kind of doctor this was and seek out someone like that. </p><p></p><p>As far as the leave Mom alone until she's had her coffee? Well here's a thought on that. It's power. It's time that YOU get Free and Clear......No one bothers you for ANYTHING. House could be on fire and no one would bother Mom. It's freedom, it's your time - it's a time that nothing and no one will invade your space. And you have gotten that time - how? By being grumpy. It's a defense mechanism that has worked over the years and it's a bit - GFGish - but ......it's worked right? And NOW? Well NOW you are like the Mother of ALL bears and REALLY grumpy - and everyone is walking a wider path around you because you are REALLY GRUMPY - and guess what? You're getting MORE latitude - more space, more FREEDOM, more left alone, LESS problems, LESS bothers, MORE people are solving their OWN crisis - and to be honest - WHAT is wrong with that? You've put in your time, you've been the Mom, you've raised your brood, You've been the wife, you've nearly attained world peace......and NOW? NOW if you are a little grumpy and get MORE space...so what? Well - the so what...is you deep down KNOWING - something is not right - something is a little GFGish within your own self - and if you saw this behavior in one of your own daughters? You'd be all over it ----but for now? It gets you an extra hour or two to think, alone, unbothered - to work out the rest of the junk that you can NOT control - so I wouldn't be too worried about getting and keeping it. </p><p></p><p>When you can work it all out? You'll go back to normal.....stress, life, kids, husband, school - hormones, bills........life again....dreams not accomplished.....things....ugh.....yup. You are human. Reality is----even Wonder Woman needs a vacation and goes off in her invisible jet once in a while back to the Amazon to recharge her batteries and be alone. </p><p></p><p>Try and find that Dr. Oz article about women doctors who deal specifically with Perimenopause.....I think it will benefit you greatly - not flip the switch overnight to make you turn that frown upside down or anyother lame junk like that - but it's a foot on the path to wellness - and I think a complete physical is probably in order too. never hurts to go to base and start from zero. And I think we talked about dropping the sugar before - so maybe you need an A1 test anyway ........and a thyroid....iron level.....typical girl stuff. Just to see. I know it's not your weight - but too much sugar is an anchor - and a mood breaker. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Hugs -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 436794, member: 4964"] HNR - I thought your post said "I am a pariah"......lol. So technically? I just thought you misspelled a word, which true is pretty uncommon for you. Still funny though. Pariah. Oh you slay me. As far as that progesterone cream? Is that something you can eat? Or do you wear it, or what? I dunno, but I can tell you that there are a few days a month where I have PMDD, and had it not been for losing weight, and adjusting my diet thanks to the diabetes test I think it's an AN1 or something test, dropping a lot of sugar and getting on triple AD's a day? I honestly felt that there were times when I was a danger to others. I wasn't joking when I went into the doctors office and said "If you don't help me, I'm going to end up in prison." It wasn't just road rage, or sensitivity issues off the chart. I needed and wanted to be so alone I couldn't even bear to hear anyone breathing or the sound of a ceiling fan or birds. Even wind annoyed me. I thought I was going nuts. And of course everyone sends you to your GP and he sends you to your OBGYN or a HRT doctor. Well that doesn't do a whole lot of good if it's not an obstetric or tutu problem. There are doctors, and most of them are female that deal with hormones and change of life issues who can and will do testing on you and are VERY MUCH more intune with what your needs are than an OBGYN, or a GP. I saw a woman on the Dr. Oz show and they took a woman that described what you have (I had) and sent her to different doctors but the one that specialized in change of life issues took one look at her and knew EXACTLY what to do. It was amazing. The supplements she put this woman on - and the way she explained how the ovaries are not putting out the estrogen and it depletes the brain of the same chemicals making the brain think you are going crazy and start to be mean....It would be worth your while to look up the show - find out what kind of doctor this was and seek out someone like that. As far as the leave Mom alone until she's had her coffee? Well here's a thought on that. It's power. It's time that YOU get Free and Clear......No one bothers you for ANYTHING. House could be on fire and no one would bother Mom. It's freedom, it's your time - it's a time that nothing and no one will invade your space. And you have gotten that time - how? By being grumpy. It's a defense mechanism that has worked over the years and it's a bit - GFGish - but ......it's worked right? And NOW? Well NOW you are like the Mother of ALL bears and REALLY grumpy - and everyone is walking a wider path around you because you are REALLY GRUMPY - and guess what? You're getting MORE latitude - more space, more FREEDOM, more left alone, LESS problems, LESS bothers, MORE people are solving their OWN crisis - and to be honest - WHAT is wrong with that? You've put in your time, you've been the Mom, you've raised your brood, You've been the wife, you've nearly attained world peace......and NOW? NOW if you are a little grumpy and get MORE space...so what? Well - the so what...is you deep down KNOWING - something is not right - something is a little GFGish within your own self - and if you saw this behavior in one of your own daughters? You'd be all over it ----but for now? It gets you an extra hour or two to think, alone, unbothered - to work out the rest of the junk that you can NOT control - so I wouldn't be too worried about getting and keeping it. When you can work it all out? You'll go back to normal.....stress, life, kids, husband, school - hormones, bills........life again....dreams not accomplished.....things....ugh.....yup. You are human. Reality is----even Wonder Woman needs a vacation and goes off in her invisible jet once in a while back to the Amazon to recharge her batteries and be alone. Try and find that Dr. Oz article about women doctors who deal specifically with Perimenopause.....I think it will benefit you greatly - not flip the switch overnight to make you turn that frown upside down or anyother lame junk like that - but it's a foot on the path to wellness - and I think a complete physical is probably in order too. never hurts to go to base and start from zero. And I think we talked about dropping the sugar before - so maybe you need an A1 test anyway ........and a thyroid....iron level.....typical girl stuff. Just to see. I know it's not your weight - but too much sugar is an anchor - and a mood breaker. Hugs - [/QUOTE]
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