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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 235127" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Steely, you are overwhelmed because you don't have a plan. Get out a piece of paper...</p><p> </p><p>With so much at stake about your son's placement it sounds as if you will have to bite the bullet and stay in your same geographical location until his program is over. How much longer does he have? Typically the same kinds of insurance programs are available at the same industries in the same areas. </p><p> </p><p>Call your insurance company to find out if the placement expenses would be covered at a new place of employment. If yes, you will need to find a job at companies what offer the same kinds of benefits with the same company. Around here The Blues are the major insurance company so that wouldn't be much of an issue. </p><p> </p><p>If you can overcome that hurdle, update your resume and start looking. If you need help updating your resume, there are a bunch of us here who would be happy to help you. We've done this kind of thing for other members over the years.</p><p> </p><p>You are feeling like a victim because you are immobile. Are you working with a therapist for yourself? When I was contemplating my divorce I saw one of Rob's old therapists. She helped me sort out my feelings, make an action plan, and follow it through, like a "life coach." She also helped me see that I was making progress even if it didn't feel like it at the time. </p><p> </p><p>I promise you that nothing will cure feeling like a victim more than taking some action, even if it's a little bit.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 235127, member: 29"] Steely, you are overwhelmed because you don't have a plan. Get out a piece of paper... With so much at stake about your son's placement it sounds as if you will have to bite the bullet and stay in your same geographical location until his program is over. How much longer does he have? Typically the same kinds of insurance programs are available at the same industries in the same areas. Call your insurance company to find out if the placement expenses would be covered at a new place of employment. If yes, you will need to find a job at companies what offer the same kinds of benefits with the same company. Around here The Blues are the major insurance company so that wouldn't be much of an issue. If you can overcome that hurdle, update your resume and start looking. If you need help updating your resume, there are a bunch of us here who would be happy to help you. We've done this kind of thing for other members over the years. You are feeling like a victim because you are immobile. Are you working with a therapist for yourself? When I was contemplating my divorce I saw one of Rob's old therapists. She helped me sort out my feelings, make an action plan, and follow it through, like a "life coach." She also helped me see that I was making progress even if it didn't feel like it at the time. I promise you that nothing will cure feeling like a victim more than taking some action, even if it's a little bit. Suz [/QUOTE]
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