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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 105728" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Vicki, </p><p></p><p>If drama queen is threatening suicide if your son leaves - maybe he (difficult child son) recognized this about her and decided to get out, but worries that she may make this a reality. It's unfortunate that she is not close to her mom, but she sounds like she's a bit of a difficult child herself and maybe she was the one that strained the relationship to being with? </p><p></p><p>The person I feel sorriest for in all of this is the little boy. Your son sounds like he's ready to move on and maybe wasn't strong enough to handle a difficult child relationship. She may not have done drugs or booze with him, but the tension of the relationship may have made your son feel like he couldn't cope and went back to coping the best way he knew how. Maybe he's just trying to find a place to go away from her that he doesn't make mistakes? A board aunti can always be prayerful. He's still responsible for his actions, so hopefully this will end before he really gets tangled up with the wrong crowd. </p><p></p><p>If he's decided now that he doesn't want to be with her - thats a whole lot better than getting married, maybe having a child and ending up in a broken and divorced home. Maybe he deserves a little kudos. </p><p></p><p>Most definitely DO NOT get in the middle of it. Just an "I'm here if you need someone to talk and not judge" goes a long way. </p><p></p><p>Glad you got to have your daughter there. I'm sure she's an absolute joy and delight for you!! What a lovely girl she is! </p><p>And my little Aly - Give her a hug for me. I think about her often. I bet she's a beauty too! Just like her older sis! </p><p></p><p>Hugs to you kiddo - </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 105728, member: 4964"] Vicki, If drama queen is threatening suicide if your son leaves - maybe he (difficult child son) recognized this about her and decided to get out, but worries that she may make this a reality. It's unfortunate that she is not close to her mom, but she sounds like she's a bit of a difficult child herself and maybe she was the one that strained the relationship to being with? The person I feel sorriest for in all of this is the little boy. Your son sounds like he's ready to move on and maybe wasn't strong enough to handle a difficult child relationship. She may not have done drugs or booze with him, but the tension of the relationship may have made your son feel like he couldn't cope and went back to coping the best way he knew how. Maybe he's just trying to find a place to go away from her that he doesn't make mistakes? A board aunti can always be prayerful. He's still responsible for his actions, so hopefully this will end before he really gets tangled up with the wrong crowd. If he's decided now that he doesn't want to be with her - thats a whole lot better than getting married, maybe having a child and ending up in a broken and divorced home. Maybe he deserves a little kudos. Most definitely DO NOT get in the middle of it. Just an "I'm here if you need someone to talk and not judge" goes a long way. Glad you got to have your daughter there. I'm sure she's an absolute joy and delight for you!! What a lovely girl she is! And my little Aly - Give her a hug for me. I think about her often. I bet she's a beauty too! Just like her older sis! Hugs to you kiddo - Star [/QUOTE]
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