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I am so lost and heart broken... I called the Police on my 20 yr old today...
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<blockquote data-quote="Chaosuncontained" data-source="post: 456821" data-attributes="member: 11016"><p>Thank you all for your comments. I guess I *know* I did the right thing in calling and turning her in, but it still hurts horribly. </p><p></p><p>I DO believe her about the Police who moved her car, let her keep the drugs and didn't ticket her when she desrerved to be ticketed. I did tell the Sheriff Detective about the City of ***** Police, how they handled her "pull over". He was very concerned. Then, a few nights later when she was pulled over with a broken headlight in a different town, by a different police officer. He didn't write a ticket for no insurance either.</p><p></p><p>I do believe her drug use has escalated in the last few months. I knew she was a pot smoker. But in the last month she has mentioned Xanax. And Ambien. And then the other day she aske me what "Flexeril" was. I had to look it up on the internet. I asked her why and she told me because a friend had it and wanted her to try one. I saw this morning that my daughter "liked" a page on FB-- Vicodin (omg).</p><p></p><p>daughter is 20. She hasn't lived with me since she was 18. She has lived with 2 different boyfriends. She is actually staying with an ex boyfriend right now. She has her car back. SHe went and got it the next morning after it was "moved around the corner" for her. When she came to our house HIGH we let ALL the air out of one of her tires. To try and keep her here. She drove 5 miles on a FLAT tire to a a gas station where 2 different men helped her air it up with their air compressor (the air pump was out of order). She is in her car now.</p><p></p><p>She doesn't have a job. She can't seem to keep on very long. She isn't in college. She does have too much free time on her hands. She isn't responsible. She's unemployed, a stoner and a criminal. </p><p></p><p>She wasnt allowed to run rampant as a child. She had rules. She was VERY loved (still is). She was a good girl. SHe graduated early. She's smart (but apparently OH SO dumb too). </p><p></p><p>It just... it hurts. My girl, my sweet baby has changed into a person I am ashamed of. A person who I don't know. And I feel helpless and hopeless. And lost. I love her so much. and I feel like I am watching a train wreck. I can do nothing to stop it. I'm watching my child self destruct. </p><p></p><p>Thank you all again for your comments. They did help me feel better, a bit anyway lol. I hope and pray that me turning her in saves her. That one day she will forgive me. We are closer to each other than anyone else. And although I KNOW it had to be done--I still feel like I betrayed her. And I know she will see it that way too... I don't wish this on anyone...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chaosuncontained, post: 456821, member: 11016"] Thank you all for your comments. I guess I *know* I did the right thing in calling and turning her in, but it still hurts horribly. I DO believe her about the Police who moved her car, let her keep the drugs and didn't ticket her when she desrerved to be ticketed. I did tell the Sheriff Detective about the City of ***** Police, how they handled her "pull over". He was very concerned. Then, a few nights later when she was pulled over with a broken headlight in a different town, by a different police officer. He didn't write a ticket for no insurance either. I do believe her drug use has escalated in the last few months. I knew she was a pot smoker. But in the last month she has mentioned Xanax. And Ambien. And then the other day she aske me what "Flexeril" was. I had to look it up on the internet. I asked her why and she told me because a friend had it and wanted her to try one. I saw this morning that my daughter "liked" a page on FB-- Vicodin (omg). daughter is 20. She hasn't lived with me since she was 18. She has lived with 2 different boyfriends. She is actually staying with an ex boyfriend right now. She has her car back. SHe went and got it the next morning after it was "moved around the corner" for her. When she came to our house HIGH we let ALL the air out of one of her tires. To try and keep her here. She drove 5 miles on a FLAT tire to a a gas station where 2 different men helped her air it up with their air compressor (the air pump was out of order). She is in her car now. She doesn't have a job. She can't seem to keep on very long. She isn't in college. She does have too much free time on her hands. She isn't responsible. She's unemployed, a stoner and a criminal. She wasnt allowed to run rampant as a child. She had rules. She was VERY loved (still is). She was a good girl. SHe graduated early. She's smart (but apparently OH SO dumb too). It just... it hurts. My girl, my sweet baby has changed into a person I am ashamed of. A person who I don't know. And I feel helpless and hopeless. And lost. I love her so much. and I feel like I am watching a train wreck. I can do nothing to stop it. I'm watching my child self destruct. Thank you all again for your comments. They did help me feel better, a bit anyway lol. I hope and pray that me turning her in saves her. That one day she will forgive me. We are closer to each other than anyone else. And although I KNOW it had to be done--I still feel like I betrayed her. And I know she will see it that way too... I don't wish this on anyone... [/QUOTE]
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