mrscatinthehat
Seussical
Our dhs caseworker called today with "GOOD" news. The school district is willing to hold gfg1s diploma so technically she doesn't finish school in May so she can stay at Residential Treatment Center (RTC) (in foster care) for another year. She couldn't understand why we weren't excited.
Oh let me count the reasons. We have been reminding R that she will be turning 18 then and transitioning so we need to get going. Now she will see yep I waited it out so now because I didn't cooperate I got my way. Also the meltdown I foresee (because remember she is a difficult child) is going to be huge. I was really hoping for some other kind of transition.
I know this gives us another year but guess what it also means we get crapped on for another year with these guys (dhs). Oh the joy.
As torn as I was that she would struggle if out on her own it was my little light at the first tunnel. Now poof they turned my light out. I know can't make me happy but geez.
So now when we have her staffing in December (we have one for each difficult child in December because we need those for our holiday spirit) we get to discuss/ make a plan for the next year. I don't know yet how the person at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) feels but I am going to call her in a bit to see her reaction. I got the feeling she wasn't excited about this idea when our case worker brought it up before. Now that it is pretty much a reality I wonder how this will work.
So now we have to figure out if that means she won't go through graduation until next year (oh boy that will be another meltdown I bet) or if she will get to pretend this year.
Does it never end?
bEth
Oh let me count the reasons. We have been reminding R that she will be turning 18 then and transitioning so we need to get going. Now she will see yep I waited it out so now because I didn't cooperate I got my way. Also the meltdown I foresee (because remember she is a difficult child) is going to be huge. I was really hoping for some other kind of transition.
I know this gives us another year but guess what it also means we get crapped on for another year with these guys (dhs). Oh the joy.
As torn as I was that she would struggle if out on her own it was my little light at the first tunnel. Now poof they turned my light out. I know can't make me happy but geez.
So now when we have her staffing in December (we have one for each difficult child in December because we need those for our holiday spirit) we get to discuss/ make a plan for the next year. I don't know yet how the person at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) feels but I am going to call her in a bit to see her reaction. I got the feeling she wasn't excited about this idea when our case worker brought it up before. Now that it is pretty much a reality I wonder how this will work.
So now we have to figure out if that means she won't go through graduation until next year (oh boy that will be another meltdown I bet) or if she will get to pretend this year.
Does it never end?
bEth