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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 334099" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. The first thing your mom needs to do is rehome that dog. She probably doesn't know the half of what is going on.</p><p></p><p>I also am wondering if she is adopted or a stepchild or had a separation in her life. I had a child who had an antisocial personality disorder...he was adopted at 11 and actually killed two of our dogs and sexually molested my younger two children who were adopted too, but at early ages. And we didn't know about what he was doing as he was good at hiding it. He held a knife to their throats and made them do things (I wont' go into detail...use the worst of your imagination). I'm not trying to just scare you. I want you to know this is VERY serious. There are three childhood symptoms that point to adult psychopathy and your sister has at least two of those symptoms. The three symptoms are cruelty to animals/peeing and pooping in unusual and inappropriate places and the third is firesetting or fascination with fire. All three are downright dangerous. Perhaps she has set tiny fires, like our adopted son did, and we didn't know it until we made social services remove him from our home (this was a few days after we found out he'd sexually abused our younger kids and a week after he hung our brand new puppy after he'd killed our long time precious dog). We thought others were doing it...people in the neighborhood. He denied everything and was quite good at it. But finally it hit us that it had to be him (long story and very sad for our entire family).</p><p></p><p>I would definitely have this child evaluated and maybe you can talk to the younger child to see if she has experienced sexual harm, choking or attempted smothering by her sister. I'm talking about when Dad and Mom are sleeping. She may not tell you because she may be terrified of her. This child we had told the younger two "If you tell Dad or Mom or anyone I'll burn the house down and kill myself and all of you." They believed him and didn't tell us anything until after we left. It was a sharp observer who figured out what was going on with this child.</p><p></p><p>This scary young lady needs to have an alarm on her door so she can't get out at night and harm her little sister. If she is cruel to her in front of you, I can only imagine what she is doing when nobody is around. If she child seriously harms either her sister or a neighborhood or school child, your other sister could be taken away from your parents...and your mom could even be held accountable for not doing enough to protect other kids from this child. She knows she is dangerous and does not have a conscience.</p><p></p><p>I can't stress enough how dangerous this situation is. If Mom won't do anything, I suggest you call CPS and let them know about her so they can intervene and you can help the youngest child be safe. Because that child is not safe with her sister, even if she acts ok. </p><p></p><p>(((Hugs))) and I'm so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 334099, member: 1550"] Hi there. The first thing your mom needs to do is rehome that dog. She probably doesn't know the half of what is going on. I also am wondering if she is adopted or a stepchild or had a separation in her life. I had a child who had an antisocial personality disorder...he was adopted at 11 and actually killed two of our dogs and sexually molested my younger two children who were adopted too, but at early ages. And we didn't know about what he was doing as he was good at hiding it. He held a knife to their throats and made them do things (I wont' go into detail...use the worst of your imagination). I'm not trying to just scare you. I want you to know this is VERY serious. There are three childhood symptoms that point to adult psychopathy and your sister has at least two of those symptoms. The three symptoms are cruelty to animals/peeing and pooping in unusual and inappropriate places and the third is firesetting or fascination with fire. All three are downright dangerous. Perhaps she has set tiny fires, like our adopted son did, and we didn't know it until we made social services remove him from our home (this was a few days after we found out he'd sexually abused our younger kids and a week after he hung our brand new puppy after he'd killed our long time precious dog). We thought others were doing it...people in the neighborhood. He denied everything and was quite good at it. But finally it hit us that it had to be him (long story and very sad for our entire family). I would definitely have this child evaluated and maybe you can talk to the younger child to see if she has experienced sexual harm, choking or attempted smothering by her sister. I'm talking about when Dad and Mom are sleeping. She may not tell you because she may be terrified of her. This child we had told the younger two "If you tell Dad or Mom or anyone I'll burn the house down and kill myself and all of you." They believed him and didn't tell us anything until after we left. It was a sharp observer who figured out what was going on with this child. This scary young lady needs to have an alarm on her door so she can't get out at night and harm her little sister. If she is cruel to her in front of you, I can only imagine what she is doing when nobody is around. If she child seriously harms either her sister or a neighborhood or school child, your other sister could be taken away from your parents...and your mom could even be held accountable for not doing enough to protect other kids from this child. She knows she is dangerous and does not have a conscience. I can't stress enough how dangerous this situation is. If Mom won't do anything, I suggest you call CPS and let them know about her so they can intervene and you can help the youngest child be safe. Because that child is not safe with her sister, even if she acts ok. (((Hugs))) and I'm so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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