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<blockquote data-quote="Megandrudy" data-source="post: 708851" data-attributes="member: 21521"><p>It is 12:16 am and I am sobbing. I want to die. My daughter doesn't want to see me or speak to me and she won't tell me what I can do to fix things. I don't know what I have done to make her hate me so much. I am willing to listen, I will do whatever she wants. She said months ago that we needed to go to family counseling; that was the only way she would consider coming home. Her dad and I went twice, she did not go. Her dad stopped going, but I continued. I finally got her to go when I said she had to go see the therapist to get the things she wanted from our house. She went one more time, made another appointment, but didn't show or cancel. I have since switched to another counselor, and have gone twice. The new therapist wants to see our daughters re going to pa. She finally made contact with her and they arranged a time. Our daughter was supposed to name a place, but never responded back. Why is she doing This? I texted her tonight and told her one of our horses died last night and she just responded with a sad face. I asked her to please tell me what I need to say do to make things right, but nothing. How can I fix this if she won't talk to me? I cleaned out her room after her being gone for nine months and took all of her stuff to her. I only saw her for ten minutes because she had to go to work. I had her inheritance paperwork sent to her ( I didn't really have it sent, I just said she no longer lived here and they tracked her down.) I don't know what else to do. How can she continue to do this to me when she knows I am hurting so much? I don't know what we did....we had rules, but we didn't beat her, with hold food, lock her up or abuse her. Her boyfriend naaid we "forced" her to go places she didn't want to go...Yellowstone, Grand Canyon, beach....in an airstream. He said she wanted to go out of state for college to get away from me...but she didn't go even though we were going to pay for it. She did make me mad several times and I have said, if she didn't like it here, she could pack up and leave.....but it was not ever anything we couldn't have worked out....mainly curfew....and the stupid cellphone. Someone please tell me what I have done so horribly wrong. Everyone else has all these happy times with their children, and I don't even get to see or speak to mine. I am so sad and lonely for her. I miss her so much. Why doesn't she miss me?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Megandrudy, post: 708851, member: 21521"] It is 12:16 am and I am sobbing. I want to die. My daughter doesn't want to see me or speak to me and she won't tell me what I can do to fix things. I don't know what I have done to make her hate me so much. I am willing to listen, I will do whatever she wants. She said months ago that we needed to go to family counseling; that was the only way she would consider coming home. Her dad and I went twice, she did not go. Her dad stopped going, but I continued. I finally got her to go when I said she had to go see the therapist to get the things she wanted from our house. She went one more time, made another appointment, but didn't show or cancel. I have since switched to another counselor, and have gone twice. The new therapist wants to see our daughters re going to pa. She finally made contact with her and they arranged a time. Our daughter was supposed to name a place, but never responded back. Why is she doing This? I texted her tonight and told her one of our horses died last night and she just responded with a sad face. I asked her to please tell me what I need to say do to make things right, but nothing. How can I fix this if she won't talk to me? I cleaned out her room after her being gone for nine months and took all of her stuff to her. I only saw her for ten minutes because she had to go to work. I had her inheritance paperwork sent to her ( I didn't really have it sent, I just said she no longer lived here and they tracked her down.) I don't know what else to do. How can she continue to do this to me when she knows I am hurting so much? I don't know what we did....we had rules, but we didn't beat her, with hold food, lock her up or abuse her. Her boyfriend naaid we "forced" her to go places she didn't want to go...Yellowstone, Grand Canyon, beach....in an airstream. He said she wanted to go out of state for college to get away from me...but she didn't go even though we were going to pay for it. She did make me mad several times and I have said, if she didn't like it here, she could pack up and leave.....but it was not ever anything we couldn't have worked out....mainly curfew....and the stupid cellphone. Someone please tell me what I have done so horribly wrong. Everyone else has all these happy times with their children, and I don't even get to see or speak to mine. I am so sad and lonely for her. I miss her so much. Why doesn't she miss me? [/QUOTE]
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