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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 710160" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think we are given challenges as lessons to help us become better, stronger people. You dont yet know the outcome of this. Lay low and see what happens. She is very young.</p><p></p><p>Did she ever bring up being adopted? Some talk about it. Some dont. All think about it and it effects them in diffetent ways. Always there is the question, spoken or not, who am I? Why was I given away? They certainly love us lots, but we did not create them. They dont share our DNA. Girls especially can be curious. All adopted kids think about their birth families, even if they love us to pieces and have wonderful lives.</p><p></p><p>Some adopted kids (and birthkids who had chaotic infant and toddler years) have varying degrees of attachment problems. This is not our faults.</p><p></p><p>I have three adopted kids, all who had adoption issues at times as we encouraged them to talk about it. One child who was six when we got him never attached and knew it and was upset about it but he couldnt help it. He left after marryong. Has been over ten years.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter came to you young. Was she loved by somebody before she came to you? Is she from abroad? From an orphanage? Foater care? </p><p></p><p>It is so very heartbreaking when a beloved child rejects us. I hope your daughter is just going through a phase. At her age, it is very possible. Probable too.</p><p></p><p>Much light and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 710160, member: 1550"] I think we are given challenges as lessons to help us become better, stronger people. You dont yet know the outcome of this. Lay low and see what happens. She is very young. Did she ever bring up being adopted? Some talk about it. Some dont. All think about it and it effects them in diffetent ways. Always there is the question, spoken or not, who am I? Why was I given away? They certainly love us lots, but we did not create them. They dont share our DNA. Girls especially can be curious. All adopted kids think about their birth families, even if they love us to pieces and have wonderful lives. Some adopted kids (and birthkids who had chaotic infant and toddler years) have varying degrees of attachment problems. This is not our faults. I have three adopted kids, all who had adoption issues at times as we encouraged them to talk about it. One child who was six when we got him never attached and knew it and was upset about it but he couldnt help it. He left after marryong. Has been over ten years. Your daughter came to you young. Was she loved by somebody before she came to you? Is she from abroad? From an orphanage? Foater care? It is so very heartbreaking when a beloved child rejects us. I hope your daughter is just going through a phase. At her age, it is very possible. Probable too. Much light and love. [/QUOTE]
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