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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 137983" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>you guys really are the best. wish we could get together for a real drink <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>he said he was llying to me because he was trying to protect me he didn't wnat me to get scard that he was cheating. he said he tried to help this girl somewhat through the break up she called him becausze it was his friend that abroke up with her. he tried to talk to her and tell her life goes on and it'll be ok and then boom she started asking him out he said no twice and she kept asking.</p><p></p><p>he siad he figured after a period of time she'd give up yet taht's just about when i jumped in and checked the phone.</p><p></p><p>so it wasn't to avoid a fight he i guess in his screwy way of thinking thought ok i'll help her cover it up jen will never understand because he knows my trust issues are beyond belief i freak if he doenst' text back right away lately with what i'm gonig through.</p><p></p><p>so how does that sound? he's going back to therapy seperately to work on his issues. i also told him that's it complete honesty from here on out or we won't make it i wont' do this again.</p><p></p><p>he understood and said ofcourse. he said i'd rather you get mad and afraid and then take time to be ok with me having a friend than lying to you hurting you making you think it's more and violating your trust. i truly thought i was protectin gyou. i said first of all you shouldn't be a shoulder for woman to cry on. he agreed as well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 137983, member: 4514"] you guys really are the best. wish we could get together for a real drink :) he said he was llying to me because he was trying to protect me he didn't wnat me to get scard that he was cheating. he said he tried to help this girl somewhat through the break up she called him becausze it was his friend that abroke up with her. he tried to talk to her and tell her life goes on and it'll be ok and then boom she started asking him out he said no twice and she kept asking. he siad he figured after a period of time she'd give up yet taht's just about when i jumped in and checked the phone. so it wasn't to avoid a fight he i guess in his screwy way of thinking thought ok i'll help her cover it up jen will never understand because he knows my trust issues are beyond belief i freak if he doenst' text back right away lately with what i'm gonig through. so how does that sound? he's going back to therapy seperately to work on his issues. i also told him that's it complete honesty from here on out or we won't make it i wont' do this again. he understood and said ofcourse. he said i'd rather you get mad and afraid and then take time to be ok with me having a friend than lying to you hurting you making you think it's more and violating your trust. i truly thought i was protectin gyou. i said first of all you shouldn't be a shoulder for woman to cry on. he agreed as well. [/QUOTE]
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