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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 149720" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Jen,</p><p></p><p>I am going to be as honest as I can with you. Since you came to the board, you have said things about your relationship with your boyfriend that sends huge red flags to me. You have mentioned emotional abuse, lots of yelling, and now this. I personally do not think that either one of you were ready for a relationship when you got involved with eachother. I certainly do not think that is was wise to move in together.</p><p></p><p>People on this board have presented facts to you in response to your complaints, and you have often turned around and said things like "oh, it's not that bad". </p><p></p><p>His reaction tells me that he is scared to death and truly not ready to be married. The fact that you are checking his phone for text messages tells me that YOU are not ready to be married.</p><p></p><p>Staying with a man for financial reasons is really no reason at all. There is help out there. If you stick around just till you get yourself financially situated, and then run for the hills, then you are using him. If you feel you need to end this relationship, find a way to do it now. </p><p></p><p>My honest opinion is that your relationship with your boyfriend is based on convenience, and is not a healthy one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 149720, member: 3647"] Jen, I am going to be as honest as I can with you. Since you came to the board, you have said things about your relationship with your boyfriend that sends huge red flags to me. You have mentioned emotional abuse, lots of yelling, and now this. I personally do not think that either one of you were ready for a relationship when you got involved with eachother. I certainly do not think that is was wise to move in together. People on this board have presented facts to you in response to your complaints, and you have often turned around and said things like "oh, it's not that bad". His reaction tells me that he is scared to death and truly not ready to be married. The fact that you are checking his phone for text messages tells me that YOU are not ready to be married. Staying with a man for financial reasons is really no reason at all. There is help out there. If you stick around just till you get yourself financially situated, and then run for the hills, then you are using him. If you feel you need to end this relationship, find a way to do it now. My honest opinion is that your relationship with your boyfriend is based on convenience, and is not a healthy one. [/QUOTE]
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