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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 149763" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p></p><p>nope that's ok whether i like it or not i knew you guys would give me the truth that is why all of you are so great.</p><p></p><p>i'm taking it all in. you are correct we donot have a completely healthy relationship as of yet for sure. i agree 100&#37; on that one. question is can we have one? </p><p></p><p>i can totally appreciate what you said about a best friend being male mine was as well, same tale tried the relationship end didn't work, the friendship did though so that's what we are or were. yet i left the friendship due to my fiance he was uncomfortable with it and so i didn't want to hurt him.</p><p></p><p>afterall he's the oen that sits up with me and difficult child countless nights, pays hte bills, is there when i'm hurt or sad walks me thru it, encourages me to go off on my owna nd start my own business. so yup he deserved i thought to feel comfortable. no there were no motel texts or anything lol. yet in past they did flirt alot. </p><p></p><p>i said to him the other night if i have to learn to accept this person in your world i will do such and i will have coffee with her and she can remain your friend and this lying can stop. he said no need i wont' speak to her etc. yet here we go again. he lies alot. i thin it comes from his ex she was very controlling and always ontop of him and so he always had to cover up everything. even though i seem intense i'm alot more sane believe it or not lol. </p><p></p><p>i want a healthy relationship we got things under wrap with how we handle kids for most part which was huge, hwo i want to aruge without name calling junk even the word jerk being used that was huge we moved past our i'm a me and your a you into we're an us that was huge. yet he still lies adn i still don't trust. not good. weddings supposed to be end of august. </p><p>who knows............. ??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 149763, member: 4514"] hi nope that's ok whether i like it or not i knew you guys would give me the truth that is why all of you are so great. i'm taking it all in. you are correct we donot have a completely healthy relationship as of yet for sure. i agree 100% on that one. question is can we have one? i can totally appreciate what you said about a best friend being male mine was as well, same tale tried the relationship end didn't work, the friendship did though so that's what we are or were. yet i left the friendship due to my fiance he was uncomfortable with it and so i didn't want to hurt him. afterall he's the oen that sits up with me and difficult child countless nights, pays hte bills, is there when i'm hurt or sad walks me thru it, encourages me to go off on my owna nd start my own business. so yup he deserved i thought to feel comfortable. no there were no motel texts or anything lol. yet in past they did flirt alot. i said to him the other night if i have to learn to accept this person in your world i will do such and i will have coffee with her and she can remain your friend and this lying can stop. he said no need i wont' speak to her etc. yet here we go again. he lies alot. i thin it comes from his ex she was very controlling and always ontop of him and so he always had to cover up everything. even though i seem intense i'm alot more sane believe it or not lol. i want a healthy relationship we got things under wrap with how we handle kids for most part which was huge, hwo i want to aruge without name calling junk even the word jerk being used that was huge we moved past our i'm a me and your a you into we're an us that was huge. yet he still lies adn i still don't trust. not good. weddings supposed to be end of august. who knows............. ?? [/QUOTE]
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