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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 149779" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>Jen,</p><p></p><p>I can understand where your boyfriend is coming from. I have a wonderful friend (male) who I've known since high school. We've been together on and off between our marriages (to other people). He knows me better than anyone else, he knows where I've come from, what I've accomplished, and he's always there to cheer me on, and I do the same for him. His wife is very controlling, jealous, etc. I've met her a few times in passing. As an example, when my mom called him to tell him that Miss KT had been born, her response was, "Why do you care? It's not yours, is it?" Hubby knows I'm still friends with this man, he might not be totally OK with it, but he accepts it. His wife does not know we talk. It would make his live a living he11 if she did.</p><p></p><p>Even if you and he have become an us, you still need some things to be separate. Friends are one of those things. Your giving up your friend was your choice, and in my opinion I think you want boyfriend to make the same choice to prove he loves you. I could be wrong, but that's what I see.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 149779, member: 4040"] Jen, I can understand where your boyfriend is coming from. I have a wonderful friend (male) who I've known since high school. We've been together on and off between our marriages (to other people). He knows me better than anyone else, he knows where I've come from, what I've accomplished, and he's always there to cheer me on, and I do the same for him. His wife is very controlling, jealous, etc. I've met her a few times in passing. As an example, when my mom called him to tell him that Miss KT had been born, her response was, "Why do you care? It's not yours, is it?" Hubby knows I'm still friends with this man, he might not be totally OK with it, but he accepts it. His wife does not know we talk. It would make his live a living he11 if she did. Even if you and he have become an us, you still need some things to be separate. Friends are one of those things. Your giving up your friend was your choice, and in my opinion I think you want boyfriend to make the same choice to prove he loves you. I could be wrong, but that's what I see. [/QUOTE]
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