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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 149965" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Hey, Jen ! I'm no expert onmarriage (and that is a MAJOR understatement), but I think I would wait longer in this case. Stay together - it does sound like you both have something working for you and maybe all these doubts and issues can be worked, so that marriage would be a good idea later on. My concern is that if you marry before these things have gotten resolved, it could destroy what you have going for you, and the marriage. And when I say get them worked out, I don't mean by having a few converstaions and making some agreements or compromises. I mean just wait a long time and find out how this trnaspires with his friend. Deal with the difficult child issues on your plate- and your issues on your plate- Lord knows, these are enough by themselves. If this relationship is meant to last, it will last without that piece of paper and legal and financial obligations.</p><p></p><p>So..that is my opinion..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 149965, member: 3699"] Hey, Jen ! I'm no expert onmarriage (and that is a MAJOR understatement), but I think I would wait longer in this case. Stay together - it does sound like you both have something working for you and maybe all these doubts and issues can be worked, so that marriage would be a good idea later on. My concern is that if you marry before these things have gotten resolved, it could destroy what you have going for you, and the marriage. And when I say get them worked out, I don't mean by having a few converstaions and making some agreements or compromises. I mean just wait a long time and find out how this trnaspires with his friend. Deal with the difficult child issues on your plate- and your issues on your plate- Lord knows, these are enough by themselves. If this relationship is meant to last, it will last without that piece of paper and legal and financial obligations. So..that is my opinion.. [/QUOTE]
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