He is looking for one, but our problems stem from him becoming emotionally attached to another woman. He provides for us financially, but that is it. I am the one dealing with our difficult child and not difficult child. Difficult child requires a lot of time and attention, obviously. Not difficult child is easy going and waits patiently for me to have time to spend with him, which I feel guilty about but that's another story. Husband is also very needy of my time and while I was dealing with kids he found a friend and she quickly became emotionally attached to her because she listens to him complain about me not having time, kids being difficult, house work not getting done. They both ride motorcycles so that is where it began because I don't have much time to ride with him.
